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You Get What You Give, So Give LOVE

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When you are in a reciprocal Twin Flame relationship, you immediately receive the energy that you give to your partner. If you give your partner blissful, unconditional love, you directly receive that love back to you, infinitely. But, if you give your partner judgmental, conditional love, you receive that limitation of love instead. You end up feeling wounded, and you suffer relentlessly. 

As Spencer and I can attest, the reflection of your own wounding can feel incredibly cruel and debilitating. It can feel like the sun is gone from your very world. You may experience endless dark nights of the soul. What’s worse, it can seem impossible for you to enact unconditional love when you feel so unjustly wounded! Yet, giving love is how your soul naturally exists, and the solution to any Twin Flame conundrum is to simply get back to your soul’s way of being. You simply give love. 

Your soul gives love easily and generously. This is who you really are, for you are a sacred aspect of GodSource who gives love as naturally as breathing air. You’ve just been conditioned against your true nature. You have been conditioned to limit love. Your Twin Flame shows you this limitation in sharp relief. They show you that you are not being your real self.

If you bring any problem to the Other Half of your soul, you’re going to get that problem thrown right back in your face, pronto. For example, if you expect to finally have the romantic treatment that you’ve always wanted from a partner, and you bring that wounded feeling of expectation to your Other Half, you’re going to get your wounding served up to you on a  silver platter. In fact, your partner is never going to dish up what you really want because you are coming to them with wounded expectation. This is not because your Beloved doesn’t love you. They simply have to reflect back to you what you give.

When you bring to your Beloved wounding and judgment, your partner withers away on the vine, but when you love your Other Half with all your soul, they bloom right before your eyes! Your choice fuels your reality, and you can choose heaven instead of hell. You can give gorgeous love to your Beloved and never stop. This is how you live out the relationship of your dreams. You take each other’s hands and dance the eternal waltz of the stars, and you bring that heavenly realm unto earth.

Your God-given Other Half is always within you, simply waiting for your love to be returned, so give love and join the dance, and watch your world transform! Bring to life your sacred romance and revel in harmonious bliss. Blaze a trail that lights up the cosmos with love that gives and gives.    

S&S   

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Your Golden Opportunity

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You are living during the most intense awakening times for humanity. This means that you are being given a golden opportunity to heal yourself on all levels. Your Twin Flame relationship accelerates your healing process. Your Twin Flame brings out everything that asks to be healed in you so that you can evolve into your highest human expression. 

Your healing involves addressing all the ways that you feel fractured, discordant and corrupted. Your healing involves summoning the greatest love from within your depths until you finally feel whole and harmonious, with the shining innocence of your soul. Throughout the process, you face your core wounds of abandonment and betrayal. You endure the darkest nights, and you hold onto yourself because that is all that you have left. You come to your own rescue and answer your own cries for love until you feel the same love for yourself that you feel for your Twin.

You summon the deepest spiritual love from within your core—a love that is unfathomable. This love is all that you have ever craved, and it heals what has felt so broken. For you realize that you are not forsaken because you will never forsake yourself. You will put yourself back together again and unite all aspects that have gone astray until you feel perfect oneness. And in that oneness, you actually help to heal all humans. 

This is the spiritual human journey, and Twin Flames act as catalysts on the road. We give all for love so that we may give love for all. We follow our hearts above reason so that we may heal every heartbreak. We heal all the distortions that have corrupted human partnerships. Most people shy away from this kind of intense healing, and who could blame them? But you, you are a force of nature in this world and a wayshower for all people. You are a leader of healing, and you are here to lead humanity back to LOVE. And we are in awe of you.  

Infinite Love ~Suzanne & Spencer 

New Bookstore and Update!

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Beautiful Twin Flames, 

Our bookstore has been updated to a new platform that can be accessed here. If you need to download a prior purchase again, please contact us here. 

As Suzanne wrote on Share the Spiritual, we are with you as humanity rapidly evolves. We are evolving into beings of total LOVE. All that we dream about and more will unfold in the blink of an eye, as fast as it takes to fall in love.

Yes, the human story is the most heart-wrenching yet exquisite love story, just like each Twin Flame reunion. These love stories are not cosmic, tragic jokes, which the illusion of fear would have us believe. Indeed, all is not lost, despite appearances! We vacillate between polar opposite feelings of “All is right with the world!” and, “All is utterly lost,” only to find ultimate, unconditional LOVE waiting patiently for our arrival.

The human tale of separation and longing is coming to beauteous fruition, as is each Twin Flame story. Our relationships and our old world have broken down in order to usher in a brand New Earth. Our human egos had to be humbled so that we could serve all instead of just ourselves. This was paramount because we are getting increasingly, spiritually powerful in human form. We are becoming whole so that we can come together and unify, two by two, and live Heaven-on-Earth! Yes, Eden is absolutely real, and my Twin Flame and I are experiencing it more and more every day, even after processing so much pain.

Oh, believe in Eden with all of your heart! Feel it, see it, live it, for this Eden is your destiny. It is waiting patiently for you to give over to LOVE and to land safely on its shores. So give love instead of withdrawing in pain. Be a star, not a starfish. Embody unconditional love instead of the conditional, and as you do, free our entire world! Do this for your Twin, for those asleep, and for all of humanity. Do it for the universe and our entire cosmos of consciousness. We are one, and we are finally being freed.

Most of all, be so good to your beautiful being and do what you need to do to get through this epic birth with GRACE, if you can (please know that we are trying and failing at this lots!). Remember, births are messy and there has been so much trauma to heal, but you are never alone in this and you are cherished just as you are always. 

WE LOVE YOU. WE ARE YOU. Let our blissful rapture unfold… 

Hold LOVE Now

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Beloved fellow Twin Flames,

Whether you are physically united with your Twin Flame or not, you are here to bring your infinite LOVE to earth at this pivotal time. You are here to give humanity your epic love story—your living tale of ultimate separation and longing. For you courageously chose to separate from your Twin so that you could eventually unite with the love of legends. Yes, your love is so powerful that it can lift entire worlds, and that is what is happening on earth. Your love story holds the dearest, most sacred purpose—to enable humanity to finally evolve.

Your Twin Flame love is directly helping humanity to evolve. That is how powerful your love is. You are here to bring your other-worldly LOVE to this human place, and you know this love better than you know yourself. You know this love as intimately as you know your Twin Flame, for your love is the living miracle of creation. Your love is ultimate spiritual union. Your love is all-healing and completely unconditional, and it defies all fear and separation.

Your Twin woke you up to your love. Indeed, they did their job perfectly. Your beloved Other Half woke you up to your unfathomable love—the only thing that matters. For your love is your total reason for being, and you are here to bring it to earth, regardless of what your human life looks like. You came here to accomplish this goal along with all the other Twin Flames who came here with you, and now is our moment to finish what we started. All hands on deck as we rapidly evolve.

Our Twin Flame love can defy any human challenge, including the conditioned war between the sexes. Our Twin Flame love can overcome all nightmares, all darkness and victimization. When Twin Flame couples inspire each other to help the world, anything is possible. And when a Twin Flame couple unites after eons of separation, they directly boost humanity to Ascend. When a Twin Flame couple wakes up and remembers their earth-shattering LOVE, even if this couple stays apart in the physical for a time, they bring their death-defying love here to this human plane, and they make all the difference.

When a Twin Flame couple wakes up to their LOVE, each half prods the other to get ever closer to union. This is what you as a Twin Flame signed up for. So if you and your Twin Flame are apart, you can still hold onto the massive love that you share—even if your other half seems asleep—you can still hold your love and address your healing. This what your Twin pushes you towards. You can help each other to close the wide chasm of separation that all of humanity has experienced.

As you heal, you help everyone on earth. You and your Twin bridge the divide between humanity and divinity—the divide between sacred you and holy GodSource. You hold your infinite LOVE here now.

So hold yet more love, and never lose sight of union. Never forget what you know in your heart of hearts. Oh beloved Twin Flame, if you are apart from your Twin, you are not forsaken. You are here to heal in order to help all of creation.

You are not here to live the perfect life with your Other Half—at least not yet! You are here first to help humanity evolve. That is the reason why you and your Twin found each other and started your bi-polar dance towards union. And that is why you are reading this blog right now.

You and your Twin found each other in the eternal darkness—hallelujah! Now, it is impossible to forget each other. Amen. Your desire to unite is a desire to fulfill your most precious goal—to heal your feelings of abandonment, and as you heal, you are able to hold ever increasing LOVE that lifts all of humanity up.

You are not alone in this endeavor. Your fellow Twin Flames are here with you, and our love can overcome anything and everything, so let’s do this and never look back at our hardships! We are not victims of separation—we chose to separate in order to ultimately unite so that we would Ascend our very world! Never forget this, brave fellow Twin on earth.

Infinite LOVE,

Suzanne & Spencer

Special shout out to T.C. for inspiring us to write again : )

Leaving Sad Separation for Glorious Union!

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The old world that humans have known is crumbling right before our eyes. The limiting systems of logic and corruption that we have lived under are breaking apart at the seams. Many Twin Flames knew that this breakdown would happen. We prepared, we healed, and we persevered. For years. But it is one thing to understand the concept of crumbling systems and another to actually go through it. Add to this the numerous personal challenges that we Twin Flames have already been through! Healing has certainly felt never-ending. But the breakdown that we are experiencing is actually heaven-sent because the human experience of feeling separate and alone from our Twins, from each other, and from spiritual reality is finally ending. Hallelujah! Amen. 

Twins who are apart from each other know this feeling of separation and loneliness acutely. Excruciatingly so. We experience the sheer agony of longing to unite with our other half, and this agony rivals all suffering. We do everything in our power to fulfill the promise of union, only to be met with growth challenges galore. Yet, these challenges actually prepare us for union. They push us to heal all the feelings of separation that we carry inside until we feel whole in ourselves so completely that we can embody union—our natural soul state.

This process of Twin Flame union is the same process that humanity is currently going through. We are being pushed towards union. We are leaving the experience of separation behind in order to embrace spiritual union with each other. Again, our natural state. And letting go of the old is so much easier when we leap towards something so incredibly exciting and entirely new. We are far better off when we don’t focus on the breakdown, but rather embrace reunion with all of our hearts!

So leap headfirst into the gorgeous LOVE that beckons and the certainty of spiritual bliss. Jump with all your soul into the luminous new and find it more familiar than yourself! Return to the tranquility that you know in your heart of hearts and find perfect unity again. It is right here, waiting to be remembered. It is but a conscious breath away, and you are it.  

You are the world, and the world is you. Every human being on this planet is an integral part of your being. You are your Twin Flame, and your Twin Flame is you. And even though the old game of separation tried to convince you otherwise (rather convincingly!), we are all interconnected inside. There is no reason to despair in loneliness ever again because it just wasn’t real. Twins can never truly be separated from each other, just as creation cannot be fractured from itself. You are life, and life is you. 

Suzanne & Spencer 

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Overcoming Painful Repetition

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A crucial method of healing has recently come to light for us, and it involves how we humans behave in order to protect ourselves. We recreate what we’ve done in the past in order to prove that how we originally handled things was right. We do this to prove that we are lovable and valuable instead of how the experience made us feel—unlovable and not valuable. And we do this until we become strong with self-worth.

We recreate painful experiences until we truly get that we are cherished in the universe and that we are unconditionally loved. 

This is why you might leave a job or relationship and then find yourself repeating similar painful experiences in a new job or new relationship. This is why you might repeat the same painful interactions with your Beloved over and over again. You are trying to justify your worth, your integrity, and your abilities one more time, through a situation that you are familiar with. But if you are stuck in the need to justify anything, you are stuck in the painful past. And you are likely to repeat it. 

So how do you stop repeating painful experiences? Start by taking a good hard look at what those experiences have taught you. Then take those lessons to heart. For example, if you felt disrespected in a prior relationship, left that relationship, and then found a new relationship with the same dynamic of disrespect, you are trying to justify that you were right to leave then and now. You are trying to assert all over again that you deserve respect. The lesson is to give yourself respect right now and to insist upon it in all of your interactions without needing to repeat the past.

Once you take the lesson to heart, you don’t need the same experience to teach you that lesson any longer. You are free to move on to higher experiences.

So ask yourself, what painful situations have I repeated in my life, and what have they been trying to teach me? 

As you gain awareness of repetition in your relationships, you will see that some people repeat being hurtful to others. Why? To justify that they were right in being hurtful the first time around! What’s worse, such people shift the blame to the person whom they hurt. They do not have the gift of self-awareness (yet) which is the key to healing yourself.

Fortunately, there is always healing and wisdom to be gained on the other side of your experiences—once you stop repeating them. And again, once you let self-respect sink in, you are able to move on to new experiences. You just don’t resonate any longer with past patterns and can’t go anywhere near disrespect. 

But if you have struggled with self-respect in the past (and who hasn’t?!) how do you truly grasp and embody it now? You do so by facing yourself head on in the mirror. You take a brave look into all the dark corners of your humanness, and you admit why you do what you do. You look at how you judge yourself inside, and you heal that judgment with self-love. I explain this healing process in my guide, “You Are Infinitely Loved.” 

Please know that you don’t have to prove a thing to anyone on this planet, most especially to yourself. Repeat after us: you are perfect just the way you are right now. You have never done anything truly wrong from the larger perspective of creation. You have always done the best you could with all that you were handling. You don’t need to justify that you were right in the past because you actually really were. Let this feeling of being fully accepted sink in, and then realize that you don’t have to prove yourself ever again. You can go forward with new uplifting experiences.

Then something sublime happens. You don’t need anyone else to prove themselves to you either. And you don’t need your Beloved to prove their love because it has always already been there.

 

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Twin Flames are Here to Serve

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If you are feeling intense, otherworldly love for your Beloved and cannot be with them, hear our heartfelt words. In fact, if you want to give up on your Beloved entirely, this clarion call applies to you too:

All that you have to do right now is simply feel the infinite love that your Beloved has inspired in you, and recognize what a Godsend this love is—in and of itself. Recognize that your Beloved helped you to open your heart wider than you ever thought possible so that divine love could pour through you and into your life, allowing dramatic healing and growth.

This love changed everything for you. And this love is here to change the earth too. For you are here to help transform this place by bringing love here. You are here to serve.

Your brave assignment is to bring unconditional love to this tired human experience. This is what creates our long-awaited heaven on earth. You are here to alchemize this dense world from lead into purest gold, through total unconditional love—the love that your Beloved has inspired. The love that you truly are.

What a purpose you have, courageous soul! So seize your purpose, and bring this love into reality, and anchor it securely on the earth. Bring a higher experience to this realm and help us to Ascend.

Now we know that Twin Flame challenges can make everything seem tragic, but you must overcome limited thinking. Don’t limit the angelic love that you feel with human corruption! Don’t make this all-powerful love conditional and possessive, thus wrecking transformation!

And get this. Your separation from your beloved actually intensifies your feelings of love, so use this opportunity to get your work done! Bring the love that we need for transformation—the transformation that precedes harmonious union and Eden.

Go forth, Beloved soul, and be brave with unconditional love. Be bold with love even in the face of the ridiculous. Be powerful even in the grips of rejection. All you have to do is feel love. Just feel it. Feel the love that is you—that is your Beloved too. For love is everyone, and we are remembering it two by two.

S&S

Ultimate Healing

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It is very normal to feel completely fed up with your whole Twin Flame experience. For good reason. You are going through the toughest crash course in human growth that you will ever know. You are taking the fastest route back to your true self while living in human form.

Your true self is total love, and that is what your Twin Flame experience is leading you towards. You see, your Twin Flame experience is helping you to stop resisting your own unconditional, all-accepting love. It is urging you to release all the ways you do not love yourself enough and are looking for that love in someone else. Yes, from your Twin Flame. That is why you may find yourself experiencing dramatic separation from your Other Half, including total rejection.

It’s a cruel process, but entirely effective. And it is very normal to find yourself utterly devastated, time and time again. It is completely understandable to find yourself at a total loss after trying so hard to grow through this – after trying to believe in something that exhibits little material proof.

It all seems so suspicious. Here you have been so brave to heed the call of this love and to make irrevocable changes in your life. Yet still, you may find it impossible to be with your Twin Flame. You may even find yourself rejected by them, yet again! Yet you are spoiled for anyone else!!!

What the hell is going on? How long is this going to take? And are you delusional to believe in a happy ending that looks like a joke most of the time?

The answer, dear friend, is to throw these maddening questions away and simply focus on the healing opportunities that you are being given. This healing is what your soul is urging you towards, and it is the whole point. This healing is what makes all of this make sense. It’s what guarantees that you have not suffered in vain.

Your Twin Flame experience is offering you the most accelerated and dramatic healing available to you. Period. Just think about it. Romantic love has the capacity to reach into your very depths and render you intimately vulnerable. What better way to face everything inside you that cries out to be loved by you. What better way to heal than through the most ultimate romance imaginable.

Sometimes, it takes being rejected romantically in an ultimate way to bring out every part of you that does not feel loved – so that you finally do something about it. That is why your Beloved is a Spiritual Guide working with you in the most effective way possible to help you achieve this goal. That is how much they love you at the soul level. And that is why their rejection seems so suspicious.

The number one gift that you will take away from everything you are going through is becoming whole with unconditional love. And deep down, this is what you want more than anything else. You see, before union with your Beloved, you must create union with yourself. That is why you are being pushed to become whole in yourself so that you can embody pure, unconditional love on earth.

But don’t take our word for it. Listen to your own inner knowing. Listen to the voice of your own soul as it guides you through the sea of human illusions. Look to your deepest understanding of what is real and what is false. When we did this, we found that everything our inner knowing told us turned out to be true – every last piece of intuition. Every glorious future vision. It all came true, despite seeming foolishly impossible.

Oh beautiful soul, we wish you ultimate healing on your Twin Flame journey and on your Ascension path. So Godspeed, until you are whole with unconditional love. Until you are your true self in human form and more magnificent than you dared to even dream.