Alcohol sabotages the Twin Flame journey immensely. It makes things so much harder than they have to be. Drinking alcohol worsens the pain that Twins are here to heal. It keeps us stuck in suffering.
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Why Twin Flames Run
By Spencer
It can seem almost inexplicably cruel that one half of a Twin Flame union almost inevitably ‘runs’ from the other. But actually, when we think about it, it is perfectly natural to attempt to avoid intense emotions that we can neither comprehend nor control.
How many of us have blown off clear signs meant to guide us. These signs challenge our view of the world, and in so doing, help us grow towards the light. But too often, we turn away from such synchronicities that we judge as unpalatable. We prefer the sleeping darkness we’ve become accustomed to.
I want to tell you beautiful Twins who are suffering – you who are tormented by the pain and longing of your running Twin – to actually rejoice! For the fact that your Twin Flame is running proves a very real and heartening point: they are feeling the intense pull, and their inability to ‘handle’ it proves that they are feeling it! What’s more, their running is forcing you to face your lack of trust in everything – in Twin Flame reunion and possibly the benevolent universe, period – so that you grow exponentially.
We are here to be challenged, and in facing those challenges, to learn to trust the unprecedented growth that is inescapable. If we have total trust in the Twin Flame experience, suffering and all, we can learn to trust that all aspects of life are here to ensure that we grow. This is how humanity will Ascend.
It is only when we resist our challenges and complain that we remain stuck in a 3d experience of suffering. For Twin Flames, this is magnified. Twin Flames are at the sharpest end of human experience. Resistance from the runner and chaser, the awake and the asleep, is doubly challenging. Yet the growth afforded becomes multiplied.
So when your life seems to be at its most vicious, it only serves to demonstrate in sharp relief that you are ready to make substantial leaps back to perfection. That is what you came here to do, my friend.
The most destabilizing experiences – the ones that challenge your whole view of the world, carry at their core the most stupendous opportunity for sublime expansion of spirit. In the end, you will be grateful beyond measure.
Unconditional Love is Real
The concept of unconditional love can be rather easy to grasp, but can prove quite difficult to fully understand until you actually experience it. If you are part of a Twin Flame couple, then you know what unconditional love feels like with all of your being. Once you have felt this love, you can’t believe that you used to live without it. Conditional love just can’t exist for you any more.
Twin Flame partnerships are about saying farewell to conditional love for good. They speed a process of freeing yourself, step by step, from its limitations. This is the gift and the shining challenge of your bond. Because a successful Twin Flame relationship has no conditions whatsoever. In fact, it can’t succeed until you remove all of the conditions between you both – that is, the stuff that’s in the way of your union.
But what exactly do we mean by conditions? We mean bargaining for love.
The old human way was to live in constant fear of not having enough love. And so, we looked outside of ourselves to get more of it. We traded and pleaded and performed for the love we craved. We grabbed what little we could get our hands on and carefully measured its exchange. We said, “If you love me, then I will love you in these specific ways that I can afford.”
Love became a limited commodity, and we bought into the program. All the way. But this whole arrangement was flawed from the start because LOVE has no limits. What’s more, LIMITLESS LOVE comes from within you, not outside of yourself. Indeed, love has always been who you are. You don’t have to fight to be loved because you already are it. Your Twin powerfully ignites this remembrance in you.
So what does all this mean specifically for your Twin Flame relationship? It means that you must love each other without limitation. You must nurture complete, spiritual acceptance that rises above conditional relationships. Because you don’t ever have to earn your Twin’s love, and they don’t ever have to earn yours. You owe each other nothing but total freedom.
Most of all, you must both realize that you are spiritually immaculate. Your reunion process is simply removing anything that obscures this. This is how you empower yourselves and create with unconditional love.
If you join hands with your Twin and accept their unconditional love, then you can recognize your fears as they arise. These fears began when you didn’t feel loved enough. Now, they are no longer an issue because your Twin loves you unconditionally, forever, and in the ways you have always dreamed.
As you face your fears, you will see that anything you judge your Twin for is what you have feared most in yourself. Your judgment is showing you the limits you placed on your own love. It is revealing the things that you resisted in yourself because you were afraid others wouldn’t love you if you had them. And so you hid these traits from the world in order to survive.
Now your Twin is displaying your secrets in sharp relief so that you can finally accept yourself. Your Twin is shaking the comfort zone of your own conditioning so that you can love yourself at last. They are guiding you towards your own glorious and ultimate transformation.
It all starts within, where the fight for love began. And it is unconditional love that will free you from the ancient, human struggle. It will lead you to become completely and utterly free in every possible way – not only in your being but in every aspect of your life. This means that you don’t put conditions on yourself or anyone – or anything for that matter. You accept everyone exactly as they are. Once you do, their immaculate beauty will astound you. As will your own.
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