LOVE Disarms All Sabotage

It can be helpful to be aware that Twin Flames have been sabotaged in order to prevent union and Ascension. We Twins don’t need to judge this fact because that hurts us even further, but rather, we can use our infinite spiritual love to rise above it. That is why it is imperative that all of us on the Twin Flame path become aware of the ways we have been sabotaged and take charge of ourselves with powerful LOVE. 

One of the specific ways that Twin Flames have been sabotaged is through our human conditioning. This conditioning affects us most directly because Twin Flame partners act as exact mirrors for each other, and as such, we repeatedly trigger trauma in one another. This repeated triggering no longer serves growth and healing purposes, but rather, keeps us trapped in loops of extreme emotional suffering. Even Twin Flame couples like ourselves who unite permanently in the physical after facing innumerable challenges, can get caught in these loops—we sure have! And this often keeps us from joining fully together in harmony and purpose. We end up in recovery mode a lot of the time. Our earnest, spiritual efforts get sabotaged just when we finally feel safe. We endure a rollercoaster ride of disastrous fights followed by blessed forgiveness, as we pick ourselves back up and start the process all over again. 

This devastating cycle keeps Twin Flame couples in survival mode and thwarts focus on higher purpose, sabotaging it on a regular basis. That is why not being with your Twin Flame in the physical can often be a form of self-preservation that allows you to actually accomplish your spiritual work in peace. Until now, that is. We do feel that the time of Twin Flame sabotage is ending and that, due to all of our concerted efforts, the divine plan is unfolding more easily now. But, in the mean time, being aware of sabotage and especially self-sabotage helps to free all of us from it. Let’s look more closely at what we’ve found. 

Each person in a Twin Flame couple will have experienced some form of trauma in their lives because all humans have, but in many cases, one Twin will have endured extreme circumstances in youth. This Twin is often the one who carries the predominant masculine energy in the Twin Flame couple, who also suffers male conditioning. This male conditioning counters Divine Masculine attributes and suppresses the Divine Feminine—a suppression which serves darkness. This Twin may have suffered severe and repeated trauma in childhood via parents and schools, and may have witnessed violent or extreme emotional episodes. They may have lived through incredible instability that is so brutal it is hard to understand. This Twin is left feeling utterly desolated, abandoned, and completely alone. They are always on alert for more trauma to unfold and are thrust permanently into a state of abject survival, a state which never leaves them. This Twin feels overwhelmingly challenged in adulthood and often experiences addiction. They may seem self-absorbed and distracted because they have been so traumatized. They cannot fulfill their higher purpose because they can barely survive the human experience.  

When a Twin Flame couple meets in the physical, as pre-arranged through divine timing, they act as direct mirrors for each other. They experience a soul-reunion closeness wherein the greatest love of all time comes alive, but they also share everything else with each other too, including trauma. Thus, the severely traumatized Twin quickly and unknowingly transfers their trauma onto their Other Half. Their Other Half is often the one who carries predominant feminine energy for the couple and has suffered female conditioning that counters Divine Feminine attributes and suppresses her. She tries to welcome her perfect partner with unconditional love but the traumatized Twin treats her in a manner that projects his trauma onto her and recreates it. Female wounding is triggered, and the Other Half is left feeling utterly desolated, abandoned and completely alone. She is left feeling exactly like her Twin, which is profound, and this experience often obliterates all chances for permanent union or creates cycles of abuse that recreate trauma. This abuse often mirrors the age old, low-dimensional behavior that patriarchal human men have inflicted upon females. 

So while in reality, both Twins are enlightened souls of higher LIGHT and LOVE who are striving ardently to be spiritual human beings, they perpetuate human stories of heartbreak and division. They long to be together and yet they end up destroying each other, thus sabotaging their higher purpose of union and Ascension.  

The idea of sabotaging Twin Flames by getting them to take each other down all by themselves is pretty dark, but so is all of the fighting that we humans have experienced on earth. Fighting in its many forms has always kept us from seeing the bigger picture of unity that we come from. It has always divided us and sabotaged our inherent spiritual unity. It is important to note here that all darkness is being purged on our planet right now which is making matters accelerate to the extreme. 

Of course, Twins who persevere past fighting learn to embody unconditional love, and this helps tremendously with Ascension. Twin Flames also process trauma for the collective which helps all of us to heal lifetimes of trauma. But there comes a point where healing ends and cycles of abuse begin, and this actually sabotages Ascension efforts. Trauma tends to feed upon itself, and Twins can easily drown each other in it, so they have to free themselves from destructive patterns which lower their energy and steal their power. Twins need to stop being empathic, even with their Other Half, and focus on being empowered.   

It is imperative that Twin Flames especially become aware of their own energy, thoughts, and behaviors and take charge of their beings with total LOVE. Yes, love is always the solution, just like the love wherein our epic love stories began. For when love prevails in the face of yet another impossible “dark night of the soul,” that is indeed a divine miracle that has earth-shifting power. When Twins go through the worst with each other and triumph in undying love nonetheless, this helps to heal the entire human experience. Triumphing out of total disaster is the human experience, whereby we perfectly transform through forgiveness and unconditional love.     

So what can we Twins do more specifically right now? Be spiritual. Focus on your spiritual Ascension process instead of getting bogged down in old world problems, including ancient pain. Become sovereign of your energy, your being, and your experience. Heaven-on-earth is actually available right now if you choose it. Exude powerful, unconditional love, individually and then together when possible. The idea is to be a star radiating light outwardly from a powerful core instead of being a starfish recoiling in fear and suffering. This means not playing into division, but rather, rising above it—sometimes with humor, which is always a lifesaver. Of course, this feels impossible when your Twin baits you and triggers old wounds! But you can become aware of trauma and sabotage, and you can create a safe space for yourself. Build your light from within individually until you are strong enough to be on board with your Twin without succumbing to triggers. And remember, practicing unconditional love does not mean suffering emotional abuse. It means setting boundaries that honor you as you become a role model for your Twin. You can then seek healing methods and tools that you are drawn to that encourage you to be empowered and sovereign. 

The time for fighting is over because this only serves darkness. The time for victimhood is over too, for the exact same reason. Each Twin is being called to embody the highest light and divine representation of masculine and feminine qualities in union. Each Twin is being called to embody total, unconditional love for themselves, their Twin and for all of humanity. Though Twin Flame experiences can be brutally heartbreaking, spiraling us into darkness and despair, heartbreak allows the heart to crack wide open so that we can love like we have never loved before. This is what Twins do for each other. We open ourselves up so completely that we are absolutely vulnerable, and the only way out of our pain is to love it with everything we’ve got. We have to love everything that traumatizes us until it melts into yet more love. That is when all-is-lost becomes all-is-found. That is when you realize that your eternal love is infinite and shines out from your being, easily engulfing any human trauma. You are pure, immortal innocence and no human experience can permanently hurt you. You are here to laugh all sabotage in the face and assuredly, magnificently Ascend. 

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We Are Ascending

Right now, massive waves of light are reaching planet earth and changing the human experience forever. The light of higher consciousness is flooding our world, waking us from our brutal human conditioning and calling us to spiritual love. Love that is infinite, all-accepting and eternally generous. Love that is who we really are. And deep down in our souls, we feel a pressing urgency to get back to it. We know it is time to Ascend.

Spiritual love is calling us away from the suffering we have known. It is calling us back to ourselves. This is the same epic love that the Beloved awakens, and if you are a Twin Flame, you know exactly what it feels like. Intimately.

You know how otherworldly and all-powerful love really is, and how unbearable it feels when it’s elusive. You know love and its full-body longing, and you know the euphoria of etheric merging. Indeed, the desire to be one with the Beloved is overpowering. The need to unite and never part again is excruciatingly sweet and miserable. And this desire is the same as the need to get back to spiritual love. It is the same longing to get back ourselves and to never let go again, because love is where we come from. We just forgot that for a little while.

We were lost and blind, searching without comprehension, kept apart and made to wait FOREVER. But somewhere within, we know that we are not meek, helpless humans. We are higher beings who are incredibly powerful and unlimited. We are expansive creators who come from the most loving reality that is far more real than this human plane. And finally, light is bombarding the darkness and we are remembering this.

Finally, light is awakening love within us and healing everything in the way of union—union with the Beloved, union with our precious selves. Union with everyone and everything in our storied past and all the realms of existence. We are becoming whole, never to be fractured again. Never to suffer alone in separation. We are bringing home the long-lost parts of ourselves and taking care of them—no more shunning, shaming, or hiding. No more suffering over what we can’t have because we already are everything, and this is obvious when we embody spiritual love.

Unifying, all-healing, ever-glorious love. Let us simply feel it and know this is what we seek. This is what we cried out for in the terrible dark night. Love is the Beloved we yearn for. Love is what opens us wider with awareness, ’til we see that we are what we seek.

Twin Flames understand this to the core, and we are here to lead the spiritual process of union. We are here to heal humanity, one brave partner at a time, one magic love story at a time—yes, we are living out the ultimate legend. And tho’ conditioning runs deep, and tho’ our job has been horribly rough, love is unstoppable and it is fiercely victorious—no matter the separation we have endured. For we are rising to the highest human experience. Yes we are Ascending, at long last, as you read this.

 

Why Twin Flames Run

By Spencer

It can seem almost inexplicably cruel that one half of a Twin Flame union almost inevitably ‘runs’ from the other. But actually, when we think about it, it is perfectly natural to attempt to avoid intense emotions that we can neither comprehend nor control.

How many of us have blown off clear signs meant to guide us. These signs challenge our view of the world, and in so doing, help us grow towards the light. But too often, we turn away from such synchronicities that we judge as unpalatable. We prefer the sleeping darkness we’ve become accustomed to.

I want to tell you beautiful Twins who are suffering – you who are tormented by the pain and longing of your running Twin – to actually rejoice! For the fact that your Twin Flame is running proves a very real and heartening point: they are feeling the intense pull, and their inability to ‘handle’ it proves that they are feeling it! What’s more, their running is forcing you to face your lack of trust in everything – in Twin Flame reunion and possibly the benevolent universe, period – so that you grow exponentially.

We are here to be challenged, and in facing those challenges, to learn to trust the unprecedented growth that is inescapable. If we have total trust in the Twin Flame experience, suffering and all, we can learn to trust that all aspects of life are here to ensure that we grow. This is how humanity will Ascend.

It is only when we resist our challenges and complain that we remain stuck in a 3d experience of suffering. For Twin Flames, this is magnified. Twin Flames are at the sharpest end of human experience. Resistance from the runner and chaser, the awake and the asleep, is doubly challenging. Yet the growth afforded becomes multiplied.

So when your life seems to be at its most vicious, it only serves to demonstrate in sharp relief that you are ready to make substantial leaps back to perfection. That is what you came here to do, my friend.

The most destabilizing experiences – the ones that challenge your whole view of the world, carry at their core the most stupendous opportunity for sublime expansion of spirit. In the end, you will be grateful beyond measure.

From the Ridiculous to the Sublime

The Twin Flame path can feel confusing, never-ending, and tumultuous to the point of absurdity. In essence, it is an initiation that gives you back yourself by removing all need, insecurity, and desperation. It does so by hurling you into a world of need, insecurity, and desperation – so that you heal these limitations forever. So that you become solid and strong in your own unconditional love.

How do you get back to unconditional love – the love that is your true nature? By being thrust into the opposite. You see your conditioning in sharp relief, your need for external validation, your lack of worthiness and distraction from true joy – and it is all delivered on a silver platter by your Twin Flame.

The dark night of the soul that ensues is ridiculous. There are so many dark nights that you lose count. All of your pain is brought to the surface. You cannot escape it, bury it, deny or avoid it any longer. The longing – the LOVE makes it impossible to do so. You are driven to heal EVERYTHING by the one who is EVERYTHING. What a genius, albeit excruciating plan.

What saves you is LOVE. The very love that merges with your Beloved. The love that stirs from your depths with infinite magnetism.

Love saves you. Love in the ruins of your old life. Love in the face of what is most scary and raw. The Love of your very self.

Love emerges and changes everything you knew before. You will never be the same again. You can never go back, for you are discovering who you really are and why you are here, with sublime remembrance.

You are a leader of Love, dear friend, here to help our waking world. So Godspeed, brave soul, until you love yourself as much as you love your Twin. Unconditionally.

Until you emerge from the ruins, brush off the dust, and begin to truly flourish. And bring so much unconditional love to this earth.

Growth is Mandatory

by Spencer

The Twin Flame experience is the ultimate relationship. It is the purest, highest, and final relationship of love that we get to experience in human form. No wonder so many curious and conscious beings yearn for it. But hold on, dear friends! The Twin Flame deal is no picnic. Believe me. It is the most accelerated, fast-track, and ultra-intense clearing program available.

I learned this first-hand. I thought that I had cleared much of my “stuff” and brought my shadow side into the light. Indeed, I must have cleared a great deal to have found my Twin. But once we met, this process kicked into overdrive. My Beloved and I set about showing each other every shadowy, ego-driven peccadillo that had ever held us back!

This is tough for a human (especially of the male persuasion 😉 to face every single “error” they have ever made in life. It is far easier to blame the one that held up a sublime, all-seeing mirror, turn away and run for the hills. But naturally, one cannot escape one’s own shadow. And the harder you run, the harder the shadow follows, gathering power with every step.

There comes a point in every Twin Flame relationship where both protagonists wish they had not met their Twin. Such is the intensity of healing that such a union instigates. Lifetimes of pain are laid bare before unblinking eyes. But this is what we asked for. Our soul planned this sublime clean-up operation for the path of soul-reunion.

In short, we are being led to begin the journey home. We are crusaders who signed up to split into two and be lost, and find a way home in the dark!

To turn and face our dark sides is the point at which we begin to turn for home. We allow our emotions to arise and pass without the interference of labels and opinion. We let them be as they are. We do not need to understand them or know the correct psychological condition to which they have been assigned. We must simply allow them to be and have the courage to trust that all consciously brought into the light of loving awareness can be healed.

The Twin Flame relationship turns this process up to 11 and pushes each Twin to their limit, until they snap and scream, ‘I hate this! I don’t want to be here anymore!’ And then the miracle happens. We suddenly feel light and energised. We are Parsifal who has faced his dark night of the soul with courage and found the Holy Grail.

Each time that Twin Flames hit rock-bottom, they rise up, Phoenix-like, from the ashes of their own fears. The first time this happens you think: ‘That’s it! I’ve cleared the pain; I am no longer strapped to suffering!’ Till the next time. Oh be advised dear friends, your soul knows exactly how much you can take at any moment! You will be pushed just beyond your limit, again and again, until you can feel the utter truth in saying “I Love You” to yourself. That means truly loving your ego, your shadow, and, of course, your beautiful Twin for showing you how much you failed to love yourself all these years. Therein lies salvation.

The Twin Flame experience is a journey of love, bringing you back yourself. Welcome home, dear friend. We’ve been expecting you.