Ultimate Healing

It is very normal to feel completely fed up with your whole Twin Flame experience. For good reason. You are going through the toughest crash course in human growth that you will ever know. You are taking the fastest route back to your true self while living in human form.

Your true self is total love, and that is what your Twin Flame experience is leading you towards. You see, your Twin Flame experience is helping you to stop resisting your own unconditional, all-accepting love. It is urging you to release all the ways you do not love yourself enough and are looking for that love in someone else. Yes, from your Twin Flame. That is why you may find yourself experiencing dramatic separation from your Other Half, including total rejection.

It’s a cruel process, but entirely effective. And it is very normal to find yourself utterly devastated, time and time again. It is completely understandable to find yourself at a total loss after trying so hard to grow through this – after trying to believe in something that exhibits little material proof.

It all seems so suspicious. Here you have been so brave to heed the call of this love and to make irrevocable changes in your life. Yet still, you may find it impossible to be with your Twin Flame. You may even find yourself rejected by them, yet again! Yet you are spoiled for anyone else!!!

What the hell is going on? How long is this going to take? And are you delusional to believe in a happy ending that looks like a joke most of the time?

The answer, dear friend, is to throw these maddening questions away and simply focus on the healing opportunities that you are being given. This healing is what your soul is urging you towards, and it is the whole point. This healing is what makes all of this make sense. It’s what guarantees that you have not suffered in vain.

Your Twin Flame experience is offering you the most accelerated and dramatic healing available to you. Period. Just think about it. Romantic love has the capacity to reach into your very depths and render you intimately vulnerable. What better way to face everything inside you that cries out to be loved by you. What better way to heal than through the most ultimate romance imaginable.

Sometimes, it takes being rejected romantically in an ultimate way to bring out every part of you that does not feel loved – so that you finally do something about it. That is why your Beloved is a Spiritual Guide working with you in the most effective way possible to help you achieve this goal. That is how much they love you at the soul level. And that is why their rejection seems so suspicious.

The number one gift that you will take away from everything you are going through is becoming whole with unconditional love. And deep down, this is what you want more than anything else. You see, before union with your Beloved, you must create union with yourself. That is why you are being pushed to become whole in yourself so that you can embody pure, unconditional love on earth.

But don’t take our word for it. Listen to your own inner knowing. Listen to the voice of your own soul as it guides you through the sea of human illusions. Look to your deepest understanding of what is real and what is false. When we did this, we found that everything our inner knowing told us turned out to be true – every last piece of intuition. Every glorious future vision. It all came true, despite seeming foolishly impossible.

Oh beautiful soul, we wish you ultimate healing on your Twin Flame journey and on your Ascension path. So Godspeed, until you are whole with unconditional love. Until you are your true self in human form and more magnificent than you dared to even dream.

Why Twin Flames Run

By Spencer

It can seem almost inexplicably cruel that one half of a Twin Flame union almost inevitably ‘runs’ from the other. But actually, when we think about it, it is perfectly natural to attempt to avoid intense emotions that we can neither comprehend nor control.

How many of us have blown off clear signs meant to guide us. These signs challenge our view of the world, and in so doing, help us grow towards the light. But too often, we turn away from such synchronicities that we judge as unpalatable. We prefer the sleeping darkness we’ve become accustomed to.

I want to tell you beautiful Twins who are suffering – you who are tormented by the pain and longing of your running Twin – to actually rejoice! For the fact that your Twin Flame is running proves a very real and heartening point: they are feeling the intense pull, and their inability to ‘handle’ it proves that they are feeling it! What’s more, their running is forcing you to face your lack of trust in everything – in Twin Flame reunion and possibly the benevolent universe, period – so that you grow exponentially.

We are here to be challenged, and in facing those challenges, to learn to trust the unprecedented growth that is inescapable. If we have total trust in the Twin Flame experience, suffering and all, we can learn to trust that all aspects of life are here to ensure that we grow. This is how humanity will Ascend.

It is only when we resist our challenges and complain that we remain stuck in a 3d experience of suffering. For Twin Flames, this is magnified. Twin Flames are at the sharpest end of human experience. Resistance from the runner and chaser, the awake and the asleep, is doubly challenging. Yet the growth afforded becomes multiplied.

So when your life seems to be at its most vicious, it only serves to demonstrate in sharp relief that you are ready to make substantial leaps back to perfection. That is what you came here to do, my friend.

The most destabilizing experiences – the ones that challenge your whole view of the world, carry at their core the most stupendous opportunity for sublime expansion of spirit. In the end, you will be grateful beyond measure.

Twin Flame Breakthrough

For all Waiting Twins

We have an exciting breakthrough to share! If you are aware of the gorgeous immensity of your Twin Flame bond while your Beloved sleeps, and it is tormenting you, take heart. All you have to do is focus on yourself and the awesome goal of your own personal Ascension.

What do we mean by Ascension? Purging all of your 3d limitations until you love and accept everyone unconditionally. Once you Ascend, you will live at the 5d level where your union already resides.* You will be united with your Beloved.

Your single concern right now is to embody unconditional love. How exactly? Love everyone as your Beloved, most especially yourself.

Your heart will guide you through this process naturally. It is far from easy – it may be the hardest thing you ever do, but the union you seek already waits at the end of your own rainbow, and it is emphatically and undeniably real.

Only a love this powerful could push you to be an Ascension leader. That is what you are beautiful friend.

Suzanne & Spencer

  • Your union already exists in the expansive, unlimited state of your soul. This is the feeling of etheric merging that you may experience while lying down. This multidimensional state exists far beyond the limiting experience of linear time and the left brain. It is where spiritual oneness already is, where separation was just a temporary experiment, and where you are bathed in all-accepting LOVE. Remember most of all that this is a process of uniting yourself back into oneness.

My Soul’s Pledge

From the Archives:

I will not squander this love or delay it! I will grow adamantly, ardently towards it. No matter what. I will choose this jaw-dropping, heart-stopping LOVE! This unconditional love that fills my entire being with bliss.

I will not settle for less. I will not deny what is being felt or justify why I don’t need it. I will not put off the inevitable, but choose this LOVE above all else. And I choose it now! I will not wait.

Because I was born to know this love – this ultimate passion that grows with every breath. I was meant to be this love – no matter what humans and their human world deny. I will have it and hold it, and keep it for the rest of my life, into infinity. It is written in the stars.

I will persevere and not waver. And I will know that this was well worth the conventional price. Because this love is EVERYTHING, and I will not defy my destiny! But seize it and live it every day. And in that courageous living I will positively transform and find eternity amidst this human world. With my Beloved. My only one. The other half of my soul.

Conditioning runs Deep

Many of us are aware that we’ve been conditioned as human beings. But until we go though life situations that truly challenge us to shed this conditioning, it will continue to run our lives behind the scenes.

Your Twin Flame relationship will deeply challenge your conditioning and beg you to free yourself from it. It will overturn the ways you have settled in your life through your own beliefs. At last, you will finally see how conditioned you’ve been. Your relationship will get you to finally choose your own freedom.

The process is messy and painful, but it is extremely effective. Imagine that you are going along in your life, making the best choices you can, settling down into a comfort zone, complete with its safer challenges. When suddenly, you fall so deeply in love that you can barely function. You become overtaken by a power you’d long forgotten in the human world – total unconditional love.

Suddenly, you see all the ways you have been settling for conditional love – most of all towards yourself – and thinking that this was ok. Now, nothing but the unconditional will do.

This is the beginning of true freedom. And it can take your life becoming a soap opera to truly get there. This is because conditioning is so ingrained in us that we have a hard time seeing it. If we can’t even recognize it, then how do we begin to liberate ourselves? We can even get the concept of conditional love in our minds but may still be operating with programming that traps us.

For example, on the surface you might completely agree that every human deserves to be free. You might think that you insist upon this is your own life and that you are doing a pretty good job not letting others tell you what to do. But take a look at the subtle programs that motivate you on a daily basis. Are you making decisions in your life that make you look good to others? Are you sacrificing some of your freedoms in order to do so? And do you feel that if you don’t look good to others you will be considered less of a good person? Perhaps you might even feel a need to prove your worth with every choice you make.

Your Twin Flame relationship will bring all of this behavior into the light and get you to finally give up these beliefs. It may drag you kicking and screaming, but the ultimate outcome is your freedom – something you may never have experienced before in your life. This is the greatest gift of the Twin Flame relationship. It frees you from conditioning so deep that you’d even forgotten it was there. It gets you to finally unconditionally love yourself. And that is everything.