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Scammed by Conditional Love

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Just like the spiritual path, the Twin Flame experience asks us to become powerful with love from within ourselves instead of looking for fulfillment in the external. The Twin Flame experience asks us to stop reaching for our Twin to satisfy us, and instead draw upon our own infinite reservoirs of love. The process is brutal and relentless. We are meticulously shown that trying to possess our Twin leads to turmoil—why? So that we go inwards for what we seek. And what we seek is ultimate, unconditional LOVE—the very love of GodSource that we come from. And then we find that this love has been within us all along.

The Twin Flame experience is a spiritual initiation of unconditional love. We are driven to unite with our Beloved in ultimate romance, but instead, we are challenged at every turn. We are stripped of all hope for union and pushed to let go of the one and only person we so desperately long to hold. We are left utterly bereft, bare, and flabbergasted. And in this state, we are forced to stop looking to our Twin to fulfill us, and we have to tap into what has been there all the time: our own immense love. We are split open and heartbroken so that we fulfill and fill ourselves up with ultimate, unconditional love from its Source.

The lesson is profound: when we try to possess an external experience, it evades us and cannot satisfy our longing. Why? The only thing that will ever truly satisfy us is Source love. When we look outside ourselves for fulfillment, whether through romantic relationships, experiences, money, food, drugs, material objects, etc., we are never going to find what we seek. Of course, we can enjoy external experiences, by all means, but as soon as we need them to make us feel loved, they become conditional and gravely disappointing. You see, any time we reach for the conditional, we are going to struggle, grasping and consuming to no avail, until we realize that the only thing that will ever satisfy us is the infinite and unconditional love that is already within us. And this real love that we crave has to come from within because that is where it actually is.

Your Twin Flame shows you this, often mercilessly, which is why meeting your Twin can quickly spiral into feelings of being scammed. Indeed, a lot of Twin Flame stories contain an element of feeling scammed because looking outside yourself for love is a scam. It is understandable to do this because we have all been conditioned to look outside ourselves for love, but that is conditional love. And it is indeed a scam to look externally for what only you yourself can provide.

Your Twin Flame will mirror and challenge you until you give up seeking external validation and come home to Source within. They will teach you to get back to Source love and drop all your insecurities around it. In fact, right now, all human beings are going through this kind of spiritual initiation. We are facing the ugly truth of external, conditional love which has led us down the garden path and scammed us. We have been tricked to seek love where we will never find it and to believe that some day, someone might give us what is already ours. The truth is that the power of love is in your own hands. It always has been.

In Loving Service, 

S&S

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We Are Ascending

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Right now, massive waves of light are reaching planet earth and changing the human experience forever. The light of higher consciousness is flooding our world, waking us from our brutal human conditioning and calling us to spiritual love. Love that is infinite, all-accepting and eternally generous. Love that is who we really are. And deep down in our souls, we feel a pressing urgency to get back to it. We know it is time to Ascend.

Spiritual love is calling us away from the suffering we have known. It is calling us back to ourselves. This is the same epic love that the Beloved awakens, and if you are a Twin Flame, you know exactly what it feels like. Intimately.

You know how otherworldly and all-powerful love really is, and how unbearable it feels when it’s elusive. You know love and its full-body longing, and you know the euphoria of etheric merging. Indeed, the desire to be one with the Beloved is overpowering. The need to unite and never part again is excruciatingly sweet and miserable. And this desire is the same as the need to get back to spiritual love. It is the same longing to get back ourselves and to never let go again, because love is where we come from. We just forgot that for a little while.

We were lost and blind, searching without comprehension, kept apart and made to wait FOREVER. But somewhere within, we know that we are not meek, helpless humans. We are higher beings who are incredibly powerful and unlimited. We are expansive creators who come from the most loving reality that is far more real than this human plane. And finally, light is bombarding the darkness and we are remembering this.

Finally, light is awakening love within us and healing everything in the way of union—union with the Beloved, union with our precious selves. Union with everyone and everything in our storied past and all the realms of existence. We are becoming whole, never to be fractured again. Never to suffer alone in separation. We are bringing home the long-lost parts of ourselves and taking care of them—no more shunning, shaming, or hiding. No more suffering over what we can’t have because we already are everything, and this is obvious when we embody spiritual love.

Unifying, all-healing, ever-glorious love. Let us simply feel it and know this is what we seek. This is what we cried out for in the terrible dark night. Love is the Beloved we yearn for. Love is what opens us wider with awareness, ’til we see that we are what we seek.

Twin Flames understand this to the core, and we are here to lead the spiritual process of union. We are here to heal humanity, one brave partner at a time, one magic love story at a time—yes, we are living out the ultimate legend. And tho’ conditioning runs deep, and tho’ our job has been horribly rough, love is unstoppable and it is fiercely victorious—no matter the separation we have endured. For we are rising to the highest human experience. Yes we are Ascending, at long last, as you read this.

 

Ultimate Healing

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It is very normal to feel completely fed up with your whole Twin Flame experience. For good reason. You are going through the toughest crash course in human growth that you will ever know. You are taking the fastest route back to your true self while living in human form.

Your true self is total love, and that is what your Twin Flame experience is leading you towards. You see, your Twin Flame experience is helping you to stop resisting your own unconditional, all-accepting love. It is urging you to release all the ways you do not love yourself enough and are looking for that love in someone else. Yes, from your Twin Flame. That is why you may find yourself experiencing dramatic separation from your Other Half, including total rejection.

It’s a cruel process, but entirely effective. And it is very normal to find yourself utterly devastated, time and time again. It is completely understandable to find yourself at a total loss after trying so hard to grow through this – after trying to believe in something that exhibits little material proof.

It all seems so suspicious. Here you have been so brave to heed the call of this love and to make irrevocable changes in your life. Yet still, you may find it impossible to be with your Twin Flame. You may even find yourself rejected by them, yet again! Yet you are spoiled for anyone else!!!

What the hell is going on? How long is this going to take? And are you delusional to believe in a happy ending that looks like a joke most of the time?

The answer, dear friend, is to throw these maddening questions away and simply focus on the healing opportunities that you are being given. This healing is what your soul is urging you towards, and it is the whole point. This healing is what makes all of this make sense. It’s what guarantees that you have not suffered in vain.

Your Twin Flame experience is offering you the most accelerated and dramatic healing available to you. Period. Just think about it. Romantic love has the capacity to reach into your very depths and render you intimately vulnerable. What better way to face everything inside you that cries out to be loved by you. What better way to heal than through the most ultimate romance imaginable.

Sometimes, it takes being rejected romantically in an ultimate way to bring out every part of you that does not feel loved – so that you finally do something about it. That is why your Beloved is a Spiritual Guide working with you in the most effective way possible to help you achieve this goal. That is how much they love you at the soul level. And that is why their rejection seems so suspicious.

The number one gift that you will take away from everything you are going through is becoming whole with unconditional love. And deep down, this is what you want more than anything else. You see, before union with your Beloved, you must create union with yourself. That is why you are being pushed to become whole in yourself so that you can embody pure, unconditional love on earth.

But don’t take our word for it. Listen to your own inner knowing. Listen to the voice of your own soul as it guides you through the sea of human illusions. Look to your deepest understanding of what is real and what is false. When we did this, we found that everything our inner knowing told us turned out to be true – every last piece of intuition. Every glorious future vision. It all came true, despite seeming foolishly impossible.

Oh beautiful soul, we wish you ultimate healing on your Twin Flame journey and on your Ascension path. So Godspeed, until you are whole with unconditional love. Until you are your true self in human form and more magnificent than you dared to even dream.

The Book is Here!

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PLEASE NOTE:  IF YOU EXPERIENCE TROUBLE BUYING THE BOOK, PLEASE EMAIL US DIRECTLY AT TwinFlameHelp@gmail.com. WE WILL PERSONALLY PROCESS YOUR TRANSACTION AND GET YOU A COPY RIGHT AWAY.

We are so delighted to announce that our labor of Love is now complete! Our Book, True Love is Real, is the culmination of our experiences in successfully reuniting as a Twin Flame couple. Suzanne wrote these pages with the intention of offering the guidance and support that we ourselves craved as we negotiated the tumultuous, Twin Flame path.

Through sharing our sublime and brutal process on the blog, we have had the privilege of connecting with so many beautiful souls around the world who are also going through a Twin Flame relationship. The parallels in our shared experiences have been profoundly moving and inspiring. We are so grateful that you are here with us.

To purchase True Love is Real, click here.

Infinite Love,

Spencer and Suzanne

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