About Suzanne M. Baker

author of Share the Spiritual https://suzannembaker.com http://sharethespiritual.com/ and http://TwinFlameHelp.com

LOVE Disarms All Sabotage

It can be helpful to be aware that Twin Flames have been sabotaged in order to prevent union and Ascension. We Twins don’t need to judge this fact because that hurts us even further, but rather, we can use our infinite spiritual love to rise above it. That is why it is imperative that all of us on the Twin Flame path become aware of the ways we have been sabotaged and take charge of ourselves with powerful LOVE. 

One of the specific ways that Twin Flames have been sabotaged is through our human conditioning. This conditioning affects us most directly because Twin Flame partners act as exact mirrors for each other, and as such, we repeatedly trigger trauma in one another. This repeated triggering no longer serves growth and healing purposes, but rather, keeps us trapped in loops of extreme emotional suffering. Even Twin Flame couples like ourselves who unite permanently in the physical after facing innumerable challenges, can get caught in these loops—we sure have! And this often keeps us from joining fully together in harmony and purpose. We end up in recovery mode a lot of the time. Our earnest, spiritual efforts get sabotaged just when we finally feel safe. We endure a rollercoaster ride of disastrous fights followed by blessed forgiveness, as we pick ourselves back up and start the process all over again. 

This devastating cycle keeps Twin Flame couples in survival mode and thwarts focus on higher purpose, sabotaging it on a regular basis. That is why not being with your Twin Flame in the physical can often be a form of self-preservation that allows you to actually accomplish your spiritual work in peace. Until now, that is. We do feel that the time of Twin Flame sabotage is ending and that, due to all of our concerted efforts, the divine plan is unfolding more easily now. But, in the mean time, being aware of sabotage and especially self-sabotage helps to free all of us from it. Let’s look more closely at what we’ve found. 

Each person in a Twin Flame couple will have experienced some form of trauma in their lives because all humans have, but in many cases, one Twin will have endured extreme circumstances in youth. This Twin is often the one who carries the predominant masculine energy in the Twin Flame couple, who also suffers male conditioning. This male conditioning counters Divine Masculine attributes and suppresses the Divine Feminine—a suppression which serves darkness. This Twin may have suffered severe and repeated trauma in childhood via parents and schools, and may have witnessed violent or extreme emotional episodes. They may have lived through incredible instability that is so brutal it is hard to understand. This Twin is left feeling utterly desolated, abandoned, and completely alone. They are always on alert for more trauma to unfold and are thrust permanently into a state of abject survival, a state which never leaves them. This Twin feels overwhelmingly challenged in adulthood and often experiences addiction. They may seem self-absorbed and distracted because they have been so traumatized. They cannot fulfill their higher purpose because they can barely survive the human experience.  

When a Twin Flame couple meets in the physical, as pre-arranged through divine timing, they act as direct mirrors for each other. They experience a soul-reunion closeness wherein the greatest love of all time comes alive, but they also share everything else with each other too, including trauma. Thus, the severely traumatized Twin quickly and unknowingly transfers their trauma onto their Other Half. Their Other Half is often the one who carries predominant feminine energy for the couple and has suffered female conditioning that counters Divine Feminine attributes and suppresses her. She tries to welcome her perfect partner with unconditional love but the traumatized Twin treats her in a manner that projects his trauma onto her and recreates it. Female wounding is triggered, and the Other Half is left feeling utterly desolated, abandoned and completely alone. She is left feeling exactly like her Twin, which is profound, and this experience often obliterates all chances for permanent union or creates cycles of abuse that recreate trauma. This abuse often mirrors the age old, low-dimensional behavior that patriarchal human men have inflicted upon females. 

So while in reality, both Twins are enlightened souls of higher LIGHT and LOVE who are striving ardently to be spiritual human beings, they perpetuate human stories of heartbreak and division. They long to be together and yet they end up destroying each other, thus sabotaging their higher purpose of union and Ascension.  

The idea of sabotaging Twin Flames by getting them to take each other down all by themselves is pretty dark, but so is all of the fighting that we humans have experienced on earth. Fighting in its many forms has always kept us from seeing the bigger picture of unity that we come from. It has always divided us and sabotaged our inherent spiritual unity. It is important to note here that all darkness is being purged on our planet right now which is making matters accelerate to the extreme. 

Of course, Twins who persevere past fighting learn to embody unconditional love, and this helps tremendously with Ascension. Twin Flames also process trauma for the collective which helps all of us to heal lifetimes of trauma. But there comes a point where healing ends and cycles of abuse begin, and this actually sabotages Ascension efforts. Trauma tends to feed upon itself, and Twins can easily drown each other in it, so they have to free themselves from destructive patterns which lower their energy and steal their power. Twins need to stop being empathic, even with their Other Half, and focus on being empowered.   

It is imperative that Twin Flames especially become aware of their own energy, thoughts, and behaviors and take charge of their beings with total LOVE. Yes, love is always the solution, just like the love wherein our epic love stories began. For when love prevails in the face of yet another impossible “dark night of the soul,” that is indeed a divine miracle that has earth-shifting power. When Twins go through the worst with each other and triumph in undying love nonetheless, this helps to heal the entire human experience. Triumphing out of total disaster is the human experience, whereby we perfectly transform through forgiveness and unconditional love.     

So what can we Twins do more specifically right now? Be spiritual. Focus on your spiritual Ascension process instead of getting bogged down in old world problems, including ancient pain. Become sovereign of your energy, your being, and your experience. Heaven-on-earth is actually available right now if you choose it. Exude powerful, unconditional love, individually and then together when possible. The idea is to be a star radiating light outwardly from a powerful core instead of being a starfish recoiling in fear and suffering. This means not playing into division, but rather, rising above it—sometimes with humor, which is always a lifesaver. Of course, this feels impossible when your Twin baits you and triggers old wounds! But you can become aware of trauma and sabotage, and you can create a safe space for yourself. Build your light from within individually until you are strong enough to be on board with your Twin without succumbing to triggers. And remember, practicing unconditional love does not mean suffering emotional abuse. It means setting boundaries that honor you as you become a role model for your Twin. You can then seek healing methods and tools that you are drawn to that encourage you to be empowered and sovereign. 

The time for fighting is over because this only serves darkness. The time for victimhood is over too, for the exact same reason. Each Twin is being called to embody the highest light and divine representation of masculine and feminine qualities in union. Each Twin is being called to embody total, unconditional love for themselves, their Twin and for all of humanity. Though Twin Flame experiences can be brutally heartbreaking, spiraling us into darkness and despair, heartbreak allows the heart to crack wide open so that we can love like we have never loved before. This is what Twins do for each other. We open ourselves up so completely that we are absolutely vulnerable, and the only way out of our pain is to love it with everything we’ve got. We have to love everything that traumatizes us until it melts into yet more love. That is when all-is-lost becomes all-is-found. That is when you realize that your eternal love is infinite and shines out from your being, easily engulfing any human trauma. You are pure, immortal innocence and no human experience can permanently hurt you. You are here to laugh all sabotage in the face and assuredly, magnificently Ascend. 

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New Bookstore and Update!

Beautiful Twin Flames, 

Our bookstore has been updated to a new platform that can be accessed here. If you need to download a prior purchase again, please contact us here. 

As Suzanne wrote on Share the Spiritual, we are with you as humanity rapidly evolves. We are evolving into beings of total LOVE. All that we dream about and more will unfold in the blink of an eye, as fast as it takes to fall in love.

Yes, the human story is the most heart-wrenching yet exquisite love story, just like each Twin Flame reunion. These love stories are not cosmic, tragic jokes, which the illusion of fear would have us believe. Indeed, all is not lost, despite appearances! We vacillate between polar opposite feelings of “All is right with the world!” and, “All is utterly lost,” only to find ultimate, unconditional LOVE waiting patiently for our arrival.

The human tale of separation and longing is coming to beauteous fruition, as is each Twin Flame story. Our relationships and our old world have broken down in order to usher in a brand New Earth. Our human egos had to be humbled so that we could serve all instead of just ourselves. This was paramount because we are getting increasingly, spiritually powerful in human form. We are becoming whole so that we can come together and unify, two by two, and live Heaven-on-Earth! Yes, Eden is absolutely real, and my Twin Flame and I are experiencing it more and more every day, even after processing so much pain.

Oh, believe in Eden with all of your heart! Feel it, see it, live it, for this Eden is your destiny. It is waiting patiently for you to give over to LOVE and to land safely on its shores. So give love instead of withdrawing in pain. Be a star, not a starfish. Embody unconditional love instead of the conditional, and as you do, free our entire world! Do this for your Twin, for those asleep, and for all of humanity. Do it for the universe and our entire cosmos of consciousness. We are one, and we are finally being freed.

Most of all, be so good to your beautiful being and do what you need to do to get through this epic birth with GRACE, if you can (please know that we are trying and failing at this lots!). Remember, births are messy and there has been so much trauma to heal, but you are never alone in this and you are cherished just as you are always. 

WE LOVE YOU. WE ARE YOU. Let our blissful rapture unfold… 

Hold LOVE Now

Beloved fellow Twin Flames,

Whether you are physically united with your Twin Flame or not, you are here to bring your infinite LOVE to earth at this pivotal time. You are here to give humanity your epic love story—your living tale of ultimate separation and longing. For you courageously chose to separate from your Twin so that you could eventually unite with the love of legends. Yes, your love is so powerful that it can lift entire worlds, and that is what is happening on earth. Your love story holds the dearest, most sacred purpose—to enable humanity to finally evolve.

Your Twin Flame love is directly helping humanity to evolve. That is how powerful your love is. You are here to bring your other-worldly LOVE to this human place, and you know this love better than you know yourself. You know this love as intimately as you know your Twin Flame, for your love is the living miracle of creation. Your love is ultimate spiritual union. Your love is all-healing and completely unconditional, and it defies all fear and separation.

Your Twin woke you up to your love. Indeed, they did their job perfectly. Your beloved Other Half woke you up to your unfathomable love—the only thing that matters. For your love is your total reason for being, and you are here to bring it to earth, regardless of what your human life looks like. You came here to accomplish this goal along with all the other Twin Flames who came here with you, and now is our moment to finish what we started. All hands on deck as we rapidly evolve.

Our Twin Flame love can defy any human challenge, including the conditioned war between the sexes. Our Twin Flame love can overcome all nightmares, all darkness and victimization. When Twin Flame couples inspire each other to help the world, anything is possible. And when a Twin Flame couple unites after eons of separation, they directly boost humanity to Ascend. When a Twin Flame couple wakes up and remembers their earth-shattering LOVE, even if this couple stays apart in the physical for a time, they bring their death-defying love here to this human plane, and they make all the difference.

When a Twin Flame couple wakes up to their LOVE, each half prods the other to get ever closer to union. This is what you as a Twin Flame signed up for. So if you and your Twin Flame are apart, you can still hold onto the massive love that you share—even if your other half seems asleep—you can still hold your love and address your healing. This what your Twin pushes you towards. You can help each other to close the wide chasm of separation that all of humanity has experienced.

As you heal, you help everyone on earth. You and your Twin bridge the divide between humanity and divinity—the divide between sacred you and holy GodSource. You hold your infinite LOVE here now.

So hold yet more love, and never lose sight of union. Never forget what you know in your heart of hearts. Oh beloved Twin Flame, if you are apart from your Twin, you are not forsaken. You are here to heal in order to help all of creation.

You are not here to live the perfect life with your Other Half—at least not yet! You are here first to help humanity evolve. That is the reason why you and your Twin found each other and started your bi-polar dance towards union. And that is why you are reading this blog right now.

You and your Twin found each other in the eternal darkness—hallelujah! Now, it is impossible to forget each other. Amen. Your desire to unite is a desire to fulfill your most precious goal—to heal your feelings of abandonment, and as you heal, you are able to hold ever increasing LOVE that lifts all of humanity up.

You are not alone in this endeavor. Your fellow Twin Flames are here with you, and our love can overcome anything and everything, so let’s do this and never look back at our hardships! We are not victims of separation—we chose to separate in order to ultimately unite so that we would Ascend our very world! Never forget this, brave fellow Twin on earth.

Infinite LOVE,

Suzanne & Spencer

Special shout out to T.C. for inspiring us to write again : )

Leaving Sad Separation for Glorious Union!

The old world that humans have known is crumbling right before our eyes. The limiting systems of logic and corruption that we have lived under are breaking apart at the seams. Many Twin Flames knew that this breakdown would happen. We prepared, we healed, and we persevered. For years. But it is one thing to understand the concept of crumbling systems and another to actually go through it. Add to this the numerous personal challenges that we Twin Flames have already been through! Healing has certainly felt never-ending. But the breakdown that we are experiencing is actually heaven-sent because the human experience of feeling separate and alone from our Twins, from each other, and from spiritual reality is finally ending. Hallelujah! Amen. 

Twins who are apart from each other know this feeling of separation and loneliness acutely. Excruciatingly so. We experience the sheer agony of longing to unite with our other half, and this agony rivals all suffering. We do everything in our power to fulfill the promise of union, only to be met with growth challenges galore. Yet, these challenges actually prepare us for union. They push us to heal all the feelings of separation that we carry inside until we feel whole in ourselves so completely that we can embody union—our natural soul state.

This process of Twin Flame union is the same process that humanity is currently going through. We are being pushed towards union. We are leaving the experience of separation behind in order to embrace spiritual union with each other. Again, our natural state. And letting go of the old is so much easier when we leap towards something so incredibly exciting and entirely new. We are far better off when we don’t focus on the breakdown, but rather embrace reunion with all of our hearts!

So leap headfirst into the gorgeous LOVE that beckons and the certainty of spiritual bliss. Jump with all your soul into the luminous new and find it more familiar than yourself! Return to the tranquility that you know in your heart of hearts and find perfect unity again. It is right here, waiting to be remembered. It is but a conscious breath away, and you are it.  

You are the world, and the world is you. Every human being on this planet is an integral part of your being. You are your Twin Flame, and your Twin Flame is you. And even though the old game of separation tried to convince you otherwise (rather convincingly!), we are all interconnected inside. There is no reason to despair in loneliness ever again because it just wasn’t real. Twins can never truly be separated from each other, just as creation cannot be fractured from itself. You are life, and life is you. 

Suzanne & Spencer 

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Happy Anniversary, My Other Half!

Today, we celebrate four years of marriage—four epic years of growth on the material plane. Today, we stand hand in hand, heart in heart, solidified in physical union. We stand here with awesome gratitude and look back at how we discovered our separation, and how we faced the impossible to unite. 

Nearly seven years ago, we found each other out of nowhere and quickly realized the odds were against us for union. But we stared that nightmare dead in the face and said, “NO! We must be together, no matter what that means.” We peered into the physical chasm between us—the Atlantic abyss between us and jumped wildly into the defiant sea.

Reunion was thwarted at every turn, but our hopes were never dashed. To our surprise, we were guided by every sign post and every spark of synchronicity. To our surprise, we received blind assistance from those around us who wished us ill. We were stripped bare only to overcome our kingdoms. Only to get closer with every challenge. Only to feel love grow and deepen, despite myriad conditions.

For love returned to our lives just when we least expected it, just as love returns to earth this shining hour! Love is returning one blazing love story at a time—one bold union at a time. Each bright union back into ONE.

Love is returning to human life with full force and blessed permanence, and all it takes is a touch or a gaze from each other to bring us back to the beginning—to eternal all-that-matters LOVE. 

Overcoming Painful Repetition

A crucial method of healing has recently come to light for us, and it involves how we humans behave in order to protect ourselves. We recreate what we’ve done in the past in order to prove that how we originally handled things was right. We do this to prove that we are lovable and valuable instead of how the experience made us feel—unlovable and not valuable. And we do this until we become strong with self-worth.

We recreate painful experiences until we truly get that we are cherished in the universe and that we are unconditionally loved. 

This is why you might leave a job or relationship and then find yourself repeating similar painful experiences in a new job or new relationship. This is why you might repeat the same painful interactions with your Beloved over and over again. You are trying to justify your worth, your integrity, and your abilities one more time, through a situation that you are familiar with. But if you are stuck in the need to justify anything, you are stuck in the painful past. And you are likely to repeat it. 

So how do you stop repeating painful experiences? Start by taking a good hard look at what those experiences have taught you. Then take those lessons to heart. For example, if you felt disrespected in a prior relationship, left that relationship, and then found a new relationship with the same dynamic of disrespect, you are trying to justify that you were right to leave then and now. You are trying to assert all over again that you deserve respect. The lesson is to give yourself respect right now and to insist upon it in all of your interactions without needing to repeat the past.

Once you take the lesson to heart, you don’t need the same experience to teach you that lesson any longer. You are free to move on to higher experiences.

So ask yourself, what painful situations have I repeated in my life, and what have they been trying to teach me? 

As you gain awareness of repetition in your relationships, you will see that some people repeat being hurtful to others. Why? To justify that they were right in being hurtful the first time around! What’s worse, such people shift the blame to the person whom they hurt. They do not have the gift of self-awareness (yet) which is the key to healing yourself.

Fortunately, there is always healing and wisdom to be gained on the other side of your experiencesonce you stop repeating them. And again, once you let self-respect sink in, you are able to move on to new experiences. You just don’t resonate any longer with past patterns and can’t go anywhere near disrespect. 

But if you have struggled with self-respect in the past (and who hasn’t?!) how do you truly grasp and embody it now? You do so by facing yourself head on in the mirror. You take a brave look into all the dark corners of your humanness, and you admit why you do what you do. You look at how you judge yourself inside, and you heal that judgment with self-love. I explain this healing process in my guide, “You Are Infinitely Loved.” 

Please know that you don’t have to prove a thing to anyone on this planet, most especially to yourself. Repeat after us: you are perfect just the way you are right now. You have never done anything truly wrong from the larger perspective of creation. You have always done the best you could with all that you were handling. You don’t need to justify that you were right in the past because you actually really were. Let this feeling of being fully accepted sink in, and then realize that you don’t have to prove yourself ever again. You can go forward with new uplifting experiences.

Then something sublime happens. You don’t need anyone else to prove themselves to you either. And you don’t need your Beloved to prove their love because it has always already been there.

 

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