Just like the spiritual path, the Twin Flame experience asks us to become powerful with love from within ourselves instead of looking for fulfillment in the external. The Twin Flame experience asks us to stop reaching for our Twin to satisfy us, and instead draw upon our own infinite reservoirs of love. The process is brutal and relentless. We are meticulously shown that trying to possess our Twin leads to turmoil—why? So that we go inwards for what we seek. And what we seek is ultimate, unconditional LOVE—the very love of GodSource that we come from. And then we find that this love has been within us all along.
The Twin Flame experience is a spiritual initiation of unconditional love. We are driven to unite with our Beloved in ultimate romance, but instead, we are challenged at every turn. We are stripped of all hope for union and pushed to let go of the one and only person we so desperately long to hold. We are left utterly bereft, bare, and flabbergasted. And in this state, we are forced to stop looking to our Twin to fulfill us, and we have to tap into what has been there all the time: our own immense love. We are split open and heartbroken so that we fulfill and fill ourselves up with ultimate, unconditional love from its Source.
The lesson is profound: when we try to possess an external experience, it evades us and cannot satisfy our longing. Why? The only thing that will ever truly satisfy us is Source love. When we look outside ourselves for fulfillment, whether through romantic relationships, experiences, money, food, drugs, material objects, etc., we are never going to find what we seek. Of course, we can enjoy external experiences, by all means, but as soon as we need them to make us feel loved, they become conditional and gravely disappointing. You see, any time we reach for the conditional, we are going to struggle, grasping and consuming to no avail, until we realize that the only thing that will ever satisfy us is the infinite and unconditional love that is already within us. And this real love that we crave has to come from within because that is where it actually is.
Your Twin Flame shows you this, often mercilessly, which is why meeting your Twin can quickly spiral into feelings of being scammed. Indeed, a lot of Twin Flame stories contain an element of feeling scammed because looking outside yourself for love is a scam. It is understandable to do this because we have all been conditioned to look outside ourselves for love, but that is conditional love. And it is indeed a scam to look externally for what only you yourself can provide.
Your Twin Flame will mirror and challenge you until you give up seeking external validation and come home to Source within. They will teach you to get back to Source love and drop all your insecurities around it. In fact, right now, all human beings are going through this kind of spiritual initiation. We are facing the ugly truth of external, conditional love which has led us down the garden path and scammed us. We have been tricked to seek love where we will never find it and to believe that some day, someone might give us what is already ours. The truth is that the power of love is in your own hands. It always has been.
In Loving Service,
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