The greatest lesson that we have learned through our physical union is that Twin Flame love is not external, but rather, it is entirely internal. Twin Flame love is deeply, purely spiritual, from the very core of our soul, and when we feel it, we become inundated with bliss. We pulse with the ecstasy of the present moment, and the perfection of life becomes revealed. We see that we are part of this immaculate perfection, and we feel so incredibly powerful. We are invincible with love—REAL LOVE that is infinite and eternal, and wholly unconditional. And we know that this love is who we really are.  

Infinite, eternal and unconditional love is hard for any human being to comprehend. It is so shockingly different from the conditional love that we humans have known on earth. We have been taught that love is external, illusory, temporary and dependent upon certain requirements. We have been taught to feel separate from love until we can earn it, possess it and make it part of our human identity. But we are SO MUCH BIGGER than the paltry, conditional love we have been trained to tolerate. We are the incalculable immensity of eternal LOVE itself.

You are immaculate love, and for you to understand the truth of who you really are, you want to go inside yourself. You want to realize that you have been conditioned to look everywhere but within your precious being for what you already have. But you can go inside your eternal self and strip away everything that stands in the way of you and your soul. That is your Twin Flame task at hand. 

Your Twin Flame love is always and ever internal. It is always inside of you. You are not separate or different from this love, nor are you separate from your Twin. You are not separate from anyone else for that matter. You and your Twin are both one, just as all of us are one, and feeling isolated and separate is not real, but LOVE is! That is why, the second you make your Twin Flame love separate and external, you ruin it and problems arise. The second you make your love conditional, it crashes and burns. The greatest love story quickly becomes a tragedy and the fairy tale that betrayed you—all because you have been conditioned to diminish the real treasure trove of LOVE within you. 

So, even though you desire harmonious physical union with your Twin so badly, the union that you seek is actually achieved by you and through you alone. Your job is to tear down what is separating you from your own love by removing your human conditioning. Your Twin highlights this conditioning for you in sharp relief, showing you just how much you feel unworthy of love. They push you to see what is between you and love, because two broken halves do not make a whole until both halves are whole. That is the Twin Flame journey.  

The process is incendiary, and your Twin lights the match. You jump headlong into the fires of your own conditioning, and you suffer the flames of abandonment and betrayal. You suffer until you burn everything in the way of love—until you rise from the ashes, phoenix style. And then you realize that falling in love with your Twin meant falling in love with yourself, and that all the magic and romance that you share is just as much part of you as it is them. And finally, you give yourself credit for your own magnificence, ego-free, and you are not afraid to love yourself wholeheartedly and to feel completely worthy of this. You are not afraid to love yourself as much as you love your Twin, irrevocably and unconditionally, forever, and you will never run away from your exquisite self again. And then you realize, with sweet irony, that as soon as you no longer need your Twin, you can fully unite with them and with all life.

Big pause. 

What a journey,

leading you back to spectacular YOU.