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Greetings from the Other Side
Hello dear Twin Flames! Welcome brave souls – you who are going through the most dramatic and healing relationship you will ever know.
We want to tell you that our Twin Flame experience pushed us through the unthinkable, and it was absolutely worth it. Infinitely so.
Once upon a time, we were blindsided by the deepest LOVE, and now all of our blindspots have been removed. We have purged everything that used to keep us disempowered. We are living without guilt, shame, judgment, or fear. And we are FREE, as we are all meant to be – free to let the soul shine through human form. FREE to love each other in a blissful otherworld.
And we would do it all over again – what we went through to be together. In fact, we were never going to stop. We were going to spend the rest of our lives trying, no matter what it took. Because when the soul calls, the frail human ego and its house of cards – no matter how important they seem, do not stand a chance. You know it. They never will. The house will fall eventually. Why prolong your destiny?
And can you really? Can you put off what calls every fiber of your being? Can you resist the tsunami pull of your heart and soul, and the only one who lights up your world? Because the longing that your Twin Flame unleashes is the same longing you have felt since you were a teenager – to know love as you’ve always dreamed. To know yourself.
All of this is a grand homecoming for every one of us – even those who fall in LOVE’s wake. Even those we must leave so that they remember their own LOVE. And yes, even those whose Twins have run.
We chose our homecoming sooner rather than later. And even though disaster ensued longer than we could barely take, lo! heaven is here on the other side. The same heaven that waits for you, courageous one. The same reunion with yourself, which means reunion with the Divine. Yes, it’s here, just on the other side of healing, with your one-and-only perfect Other Half.
Why Twin Flames Run
It can seem almost inexplicably cruel that one half of a Twin Flame union almost inevitably ‘runs’ from the other. But actually, when we think about it, it is perfectly natural to attempt to avoid intense emotions that we can neither comprehend nor control.
How many of us have blown off clear signs meant to guide us. These signs challenge our view of the world, and in so doing, help us grow towards the light. But too often, we turn away from such synchronicities that we judge as unpalatable. We prefer the sleeping darkness we’ve become accustomed to.
I want to tell you beautiful Twins who are suffering – you who are tormented by the pain and longing of your running Twin – to actually rejoice! For the fact that your Twin Flame is running proves a very real and heartening point: they are feeling the intense pull, and their inability to ‘handle’ it proves that they are feeling it! What’s more, their running is forcing you to face your lack of trust in everything – in Twin Flame reunion and possibly the benevolent universe, period – so that you grow exponentially.
We are here to be challenged, and in facing those challenges, to learn to trust the unprecedented growth that is inescapable. If we have total trust in the Twin Flame experience, suffering and all, we can learn to trust that all aspects of life are here to ensure that we grow. This is how humanity will Ascend.
It is only when we resist our challenges and complain that we remain stuck in a 3d experience of suffering. For Twin Flames, this is magnified. Twin Flames are at the sharpest end of human experience. Resistance from the runner and chaser, the awake and the asleep, is doubly challenging. Yet the growth afforded becomes multiplied.
So when your life seems to be at its most vicious, it only serves to demonstrate in sharp relief that you are ready to make substantial leaps back to perfection. That is what you came here to do, my friend.
The most destabilizing experiences – the ones that challenge your whole view of the world, carry at their core the most stupendous opportunity for sublime expansion of spirit. In the end, you will be grateful beyond measure.
Readying for Bliss
Twin Flame love feels more blissful than you can hold. It wakes you up to pure joy and gives you back yourself. But this bliss also highlights what’s been keeping you from it. It intensifies your limitations so that you finally heal them. So that you are ready to permanently live in immense and ever-joyful love.
Your Twin Flame relationship is acclimating you to bliss. It is challenging you to stop blocking yourself from it. And at the core of this clearing is a regaining of self-worth. You are removing what’s in the way of seeing how divinely perfect you are. And how worthy you are of total, ecstatic joy.
That is why your Twin Flame relationship is a process. It is a series of monumental challenges that ask for courageous steps. And through these steps, you are pushed to finally love yourself. Because self-love is vital for your Twin Flame union. For until you love yourself, you won’t be able to stand the ecstasy of permanently joining with your Twin. In fact, such bliss will feel downright unbearable.
Until you love yourself, you won’t be able to sit next to your Twin for long. You will start to squirm and ask, “Who me? I can’t possibly deserve this joy!” You will come up with several reasons why you don’t, and your limitations will be laid bare. And this will feel so intense and unjustly cruel – though the purpose is to finally heal.
Such discomfort can feel impossible. It might tempt you to blame your Twin or deny your love. It might spur you to make excuses, cling to your old life, and run for the nearest door – run from what cries out to be loved in yourself.
Indeed, the emotions that your Twin triggers can feel nightmarish. And you might think that it’s all their fault. Your Twin’s behavior might even back this up! But they are giving you the opportunity for ultimate healing. Your Twin is helping you to shed your own feelings of unworthiness until you find yourself again. For only then can you bask in the balmy acceptance of unconditional love. Only then can you stand your gorgeous relationship and bathe in its sacred bliss.
Imagine a partnership with zero insecurity. Imagine a life where you feel completely worthy of the greatest love at every moment of the day – something you may not have realized was challenging! Imagine what it’s like to rejoin with your Twin and feel total ecstasy. This is what you are being prepared for. And it is exponential joy. We know because it has happened to us.
For all of you struggling to be with your other half, what you seek is more alive than anything you’ve ever known, and you are being guided to have it again. Because expansive bliss is your true essence and what you are made of. Your human self simply forgot this for a time. Your Twin is here to remind you.
You are being readied for what all humans want – awe-inspiring, gorgeous, romantic love. The kind you’ve always known was real in your heart. The kind you will fully know when you fully love yourself. For then you will resonate with your sacred union and realize ultimate bliss. You will flourish in your immaculate partnership with your utterly perfect other half.
Suzanne & Spencer
If you are lucky enough to have found your other half on earth, then deep down you know with complete certainty that this is the only partner for you. You know that the magnitude of your love must be honored, no matter what that means in human terms. And you also know that if you don’t honor this love, you will regret it immensely. You will endure the most painful reckoning on your deathbed.
Because your soul cries out to be with your other half. Nothing can take this longing away. Not even the tremendous obstacles you face in order to be together. And it turns out that these obstacles are designed to help you unite.
Your Twin Flame challenges are designed to help you love yourself unconditionally. This makes you whole and able to permanently unite with your Twin. This is what every difficulty between you is challenging you to accomplish. And this is what your incredible longing is guiding you towards. You are being asked to feel the same life-changing, unconditional love that you feel for your Twin, for yourself.
Your Twin Flame challenges are breaking down the ways you have not loved yourself. They are obliterating your old methods of coping, your human conditioning, and your ego. Once you are truly free from these forms of control, you will remember the immaculate perfection you’ve always been. You will finally, fully embrace self-love.
And you will become utterly empowered. This is what true, divine power is – not chasing goals to make your ego feel better, not looking outside of yourself – even to your Twin! But awesome, full-body LOVE that guides you fearlessly towards JOY. This brings a whole new kind of certainty and confidence to your life. You become so strong with love, from the inside out, that you flourish, unbridled. You fulfill your life’s purpose out loud!
The infinite love that you feel for your Twin is calling you to do this. It is calling you to love yourself so that you can shine. This means that you will have to face the ways you aren’t loving yourself head on. These things cannot hide any more. Not even in your beautiful relationship.
Such growth cannot be avoided. It will keep calling you with longing and separation – with the ecstasy of joining and the agony of arguments, until you face what begs to heal within. Your Twin Flame relationship will push you to stop living for others and start living for yourself. It will constantly urge you to honor yourself with unconditional love.
You don’t want to end up on your deathbed having missed this most golden of all opportunities. You don’t want to go back to your old ways, no matter how comforting they have been. Because you came here to do this, and in so doing, help humanity.
It is time to go for what you really, deep-down want – the love that all people dream of: the infinite bliss that you share with your other half. And the full realization that it comes from within you. It shines from the inside out.