Growth is Mandatory

by Spencer

The Twin Flame experience is the ultimate relationship. It is the purest, highest, and final relationship of love that we get to experience in human form. No wonder so many curious and conscious beings yearn for it. But hold on, dear friends! The Twin Flame deal is no picnic. Believe me. It is the most accelerated, fast-track, and ultra-intense clearing program available.

I learned this first-hand. I thought that I had cleared much of my “stuff” and brought my shadow side into the light. Indeed, I must have cleared a great deal to have found my Twin. But once we met, this process kicked into overdrive. My Beloved and I set about showing each other every shadowy, ego-driven peccadillo that had ever held us back!

This is tough for a human (especially of the male persuasion 😉 to face every single “error” they have ever made in life. It is far easier to blame the one that held up a sublime, all-seeing mirror, turn away and run for the hills. But naturally, one cannot escape one’s own shadow. And the harder you run, the harder the shadow follows, gathering power with every step.

There comes a point in every Twin Flame relationship where both protagonists wish they had not met their Twin. Such is the intensity of healing that such a union instigates. Lifetimes of pain are laid bare before unblinking eyes. But this is what we asked for. Our soul planned this sublime clean-up operation for the path of soul-reunion.

In short, we are being led to begin the journey home. We are crusaders who signed up to split into two and be lost, and find a way home in the dark!

To turn and face our dark sides is the point at which we begin to turn for home. We allow our emotions to arise and pass without the interference of labels and opinion. We let them be as they are. We do not need to understand them or know the correct psychological condition to which they have been assigned. We must simply allow them to be and have the courage to trust that all consciously brought into the light of loving awareness can be healed.

The Twin Flame relationship turns this process up to 11 and pushes each Twin to their limit, until they snap and scream, ‘I hate this! I don’t want to be here anymore!’ And then the miracle happens. We suddenly feel light and energised. We are Parsifal who has faced his dark night of the soul with courage and found the Holy Grail.

Each time that Twin Flames hit rock-bottom, they rise up, Phoenix-like, from the ashes of their own fears. The first time this happens you think: ‘That’s it! I’ve cleared the pain; I am no longer strapped to suffering!’ Till the next time. Oh be advised dear friends, your soul knows exactly how much you can take at any moment! You will be pushed just beyond your limit, again and again, until you can feel the utter truth in saying “I Love You” to yourself. That means truly loving your ego, your shadow, and, of course, your beautiful Twin for showing you how much you failed to love yourself all these years. Therein lies salvation.

The Twin Flame experience is a journey of love, bringing you back yourself. Welcome home, dear friend. We’ve been expecting you.

Deathbed Reckoning

If you are lucky enough to have found your other half on earth, then deep down you know with complete certainty that this is the only partner for you. You know that the magnitude of your love must be honored, no matter what that means in human terms. And you also know that if you don’t honor this love, you will regret it immensely. You will endure the most painful reckoning on your deathbed.

Because your soul cries out to be with your other half. Nothing can take this longing away. Not even the tremendous obstacles you face in order to be together. And it turns out that these obstacles are designed to help you unite.

Your Twin Flame challenges are designed to help you love yourself unconditionally. This makes you whole and able to permanently unite with your Twin. This is what every difficulty between you is challenging you to accomplish. And this is what your incredible longing is guiding you towards. You are being asked to feel the same life-changing, unconditional love that you feel for your Twin, for yourself.

Your Twin Flame challenges are breaking down the ways you have not loved yourself. They are obliterating your old methods of coping, your human conditioning, and your ego. Once you are truly free from these forms of control, you will remember the immaculate perfection you’ve always been. You will finally, fully embrace self-love.

And you will become utterly empowered. This is what true, divine power is – not chasing goals to make your ego feel better, not looking outside of yourself – even to your Twin! But awesome, full-body LOVE that guides you fearlessly towards JOY. This brings a whole new kind of certainty and confidence to your life. You become so strong with love, from the inside out, that you flourish, unbridled. You fulfill your life’s purpose out loud!

The infinite love that you feel for your Twin is calling you to do this. It is calling you to love yourself so that you can shine. This means that you will have to face the ways you aren’t loving yourself head on. These things cannot hide any more. Not even in your beautiful relationship.

Such growth cannot be avoided. It will keep calling you with longing and separation – with the ecstasy of joining and the agony of arguments, until you face what begs to heal within. Your Twin Flame relationship will push you to stop living for others and start living for yourself. It will constantly urge you to honor yourself with unconditional love.

You don’t want to end up on your deathbed having missed this most golden of all opportunities. You don’t want to go back to your old ways, no matter how comforting they have been. Because you came here to do this, and in so doing, help humanity.

It is time to go for what you really, deep-down want – the love that all people dream of: the infinite bliss that you share with your other half. And the full realization that it comes from within you. It shines from the inside out.

Unconditional Love is Real

The concept of unconditional love can be rather easy to grasp, but can prove quite difficult to fully understand until you actually experience it. If you are part of a Twin Flame couple, then you know what unconditional love feels like with all of your being. Once you have felt this love, you can’t believe that you used to live without it. Conditional love just can’t exist for you any more.

Twin Flame partnerships are about saying farewell to conditional love for good. They speed a process of freeing yourself, step by step, from its limitations. This is the gift and the shining challenge of your bond. Because a successful Twin Flame relationship has no conditions whatsoever. In fact, it can’t succeed until you remove all of the conditions between you both – that is, the stuff that’s in the way of your union.

But what exactly do we mean by conditions? We mean bargaining for love.

The old human way was to live in constant fear of not having enough love. And so, we looked outside of ourselves to get more of it. We traded and pleaded and performed for the love we craved. We grabbed what little we could get our hands on and carefully measured its exchange. We said, “If you love me, then I will love you in these specific ways that I can afford.”

Love became a limited commodity, and we bought into the program. All the way. But this whole arrangement was flawed from the start because LOVE has no limits. What’s more, LIMITLESS LOVE comes from within you, not outside of yourself. Indeed, love has always been who you are. You don’t have to fight to be loved because you already are it. Your Twin powerfully ignites this remembrance in you.

So what does all this mean specifically for your Twin Flame relationship? It means that you must love each other without limitation. You must nurture complete, spiritual acceptance that rises above conditional relationships. Because you don’t ever have to earn your Twin’s love, and they don’t ever have to earn yours. You owe each other nothing but total freedom.

Most of all, you must both realize that you are spiritually immaculate. Your reunion process is simply removing anything that obscures this. This is how you empower yourselves and create with unconditional love.

If you join hands with your Twin and accept their unconditional love, then you can recognize your fears as they arise. These fears began when you didn’t feel loved enough. Now, they are no longer an issue because your Twin loves you unconditionally, forever, and in the ways you have always dreamed.

As you face your fears, you will see that anything you judge your Twin for is what you have feared most in yourself. Your judgment is showing you the limits you placed on your own love. It is revealing the things that you resisted in yourself because you were afraid others wouldn’t love you if you had them. And so you hid these traits from the world in order to survive.

Now your Twin is displaying your secrets in sharp relief so that you can finally accept yourself. Your Twin is shaking the comfort zone of your own conditioning so that you can love yourself at last. They are guiding you towards your own glorious and ultimate transformation.

It all starts within, where the fight for love began. And it is unconditional love that will free you from the ancient, human struggle. It will lead you to become completely and utterly free in every possible way – not only in your being but in every aspect of your life. This means that you don’t put conditions on yourself or anyone – or anything for that matter. You accept everyone exactly as they are. Once you do, their immaculate beauty will astound you. As will your own.

The Purpose of Twin Flame Couples

When a Twin Flame couple finds each other on earth and triumphs through the incredible challenges that stand between them, they help humanity to ascend. They help to lift our planet with powerful, unconditional love. This is the Twin Flame sacred mission. It’s why we chose to incarnate at this time.

If you are in a Twin Flame couple, then know that your reunion is making all the difference. Nothing is more important than helping humanity and our beautiful earth at this crucial hour. Many things will try to thwart your reunion, so be aware and remember the purpose. It is far more thrilling than any romantic fairy tale.

Most of the obstacles in your path will be completely related to the ego. They will stem from societal conditioning and materialistic concerns. But at the same time, you are also growing towards each other, and this can take time and distance. You are each becoming whole within yourselves before becoming whole as a couple. This requires acclimation, step by step, towards your larger goal.

At the end of the day, if you are still trying to get together with your Twin, then you have made it, and you are almost there. You understand what you have and are in place to ignite our planet with love. Stay strong, and do what it takes to unite. Nothing is more important, and you were born for this.