If you are lucky enough to have found your other half on earth, then deep down you know with complete certainty that this is the only partner for you. You know that the magnitude of your love must be honored, no matter what that means in human terms. And you also know that if you don’t honor this love, you will regret it immensely. You will endure the most painful reckoning on your deathbed.
Because your soul cries out to be with your other half. Nothing can take this longing away. Not even the tremendous obstacles you face in order to be together. And it turns out that these obstacles are designed to help you unite.
Your Twin Flame challenges are designed to help you love yourself unconditionally. This makes you whole and able to permanently unite with your Twin. This is what every difficulty between you is challenging you to accomplish. And this is what your incredible longing is guiding you towards. You are being asked to feel the same life-changing, unconditional love that you feel for your Twin, for yourself.
Your Twin Flame challenges are breaking down the ways you have not loved yourself. They are obliterating your old methods of coping, your human conditioning, and your ego. Once you are truly free from these forms of control, you will remember the immaculate perfection you’ve always been. You will finally, fully embrace self-love.
And you will become utterly empowered. This is what true, divine power is – not chasing goals to make your ego feel better, not looking outside of yourself – even to your Twin! But awesome, full-body LOVE that guides you fearlessly towards JOY. This brings a whole new kind of certainty and confidence to your life. You become so strong with love, from the inside out, that you flourish, unbridled. You fulfill your life’s purpose out loud!
The infinite love that you feel for your Twin is calling you to do this. It is calling you to love yourself so that you can shine. This means that you will have to face the ways you aren’t loving yourself head on. These things cannot hide any more. Not even in your beautiful relationship.
Such growth cannot be avoided. It will keep calling you with longing and separation – with the ecstasy of joining and the agony of arguments, until you face what begs to heal within. Your Twin Flame relationship will push you to stop living for others and start living for yourself. It will constantly urge you to honor yourself with unconditional love.
You don’t want to end up on your deathbed having missed this most golden of all opportunities. You don’t want to go back to your old ways, no matter how comforting they have been. Because you came here to do this, and in so doing, help humanity.
It is time to go for what you really, deep-down want – the love that all people dream of: the infinite bliss that you share with your other half. And the full realization that it comes from within you. It shines from the inside out.
Thank you, Ashley! ~Suzanne
Excellent! Thank you.
So glad you’re here! ~S&S
I’VE NEVER READ THIS ABOUT THE DEATHBED RECKONING. I HAVEN’T PLANNED TO WAIT UNTIL THEN, ALTHOUGH, I DON’T KNOW HOW ELSE TO “LOVE MYSELF”. IF THAT IS WHAT IS KEEPING ME AND MY BELOVED TWIN FROM UNITING, I DON’T WANT IT TO. PLEASE TELL ME WHAT ELSE I CAN DO TO LOVE MYSELF. I AM WORKING ON IT INCESSANTLY. WHEN I HAVE ANY KIND OF DOUBTS AT ALL, DOES THAT MEAN I STILL DON’T LOVE MYSELF? HOW CAN I PIN DOWN THE SOURCE? I AM PRAYING WITHOUT CEASE. THERE ARE DAYS OF DOUBTS, BUT IT IS WHEN NOTHING SEEMS TO BE HAPPENING WHEN I HAVE WORKED SO HARD. I AM STILL MARRIED AND IF GETTING A DIVORCE MEANS THAT IS WHEN I “LOVE” MYSELF ENOUGH, I WILL GLADLY DO THAT. MY HUSBAND KNOWS OF MY DESTINY, BUT OF COURSE DOESN’T BELIEVE IT. BUT I’VE TOLD HIM THAT I WILL HAVE TO WHEN THE TIME COMES. I WILL HAVE TO DECIDE WHEN THAT TIME IS WON’T I? IT IS BECOMING CLEARER AS I SPEAK. THANK YOU FOR THIS INFORMATION.
We so understand this intense conundrum that many Twin Flames share. The goal is to free yourself, put yourself first, and be completely authentic to yourself in every way. This takes priority over reuniting. It’s what the whole process is about and is required before union.
Love yourself enough to do what you truly want for yourself, and be free to choose in every moment what that is. Your entire situation is pushing you towards this.
Facing doubt is integral to this process. Facing every last fear – most especially the fear of being alone. In that void of ultimate loneliness, you find your true strength – your invincible, multi-dimensional soul and true you. And yes the irony is palpable – the Divine design that finding your other half sets you on a course of finding yourself – and to be utterly alone with yourself until you do! By facing the most intense experience of separation, you realize that you are not separate from Divine LOVE at all. You never were, for that love is actually who you are at heart.
We send our heartfelt support ✨ You have everything you need to succeed on your profound journey back to yourself 💖