Growth is Mandatory

by Spencer

The Twin Flame experience is the ultimate relationship. It is the purest, highest, and final relationship of love that we get to experience in human form. No wonder so many curious and conscious beings yearn for it. But hold on, dear friends! The Twin Flame deal is no picnic. Believe me. It is the most accelerated, fast-track, and ultra-intense clearing program available.

I learned this first-hand. I thought that I had cleared much of my “stuff” and brought my shadow side into the light. Indeed, I must have cleared a great deal to have found my Twin. But once we met, this process kicked into overdrive. My Beloved and I set about showing each other every shadowy, ego-driven peccadillo that had ever held us back!

This is tough for a human (especially of the male persuasion 😉 to face every single “error” they have ever made in life. It is far easier to blame the one that held up a sublime, all-seeing mirror, turn away and run for the hills. But naturally, one cannot escape one’s own shadow. And the harder you run, the harder the shadow follows, gathering power with every step.

There comes a point in every Twin Flame relationship where both protagonists wish they had not met their Twin. Such is the intensity of healing that such a union instigates. Lifetimes of pain are laid bare before unblinking eyes. But this is what we asked for. Our soul planned this sublime clean-up operation for the path of soul-reunion.

In short, we are being led to begin the journey home. We are crusaders who signed up to split into two and be lost, and find a way home in the dark!

To turn and face our dark sides is the point at which we begin to turn for home. We allow our emotions to arise and pass without the interference of labels and opinion. We let them be as they are. We do not need to understand them or know the correct psychological condition to which they have been assigned. We must simply allow them to be and have the courage to trust that all consciously brought into the light of loving awareness can be healed.

The Twin Flame relationship turns this process up to 11 and pushes each Twin to their limit, until they snap and scream, ‘I hate this! I don’t want to be here anymore!’ And then the miracle happens. We suddenly feel light and energised. We are Parsifal who has faced his dark night of the soul with courage and found the Holy Grail.

Each time that Twin Flames hit rock-bottom, they rise up, Phoenix-like, from the ashes of their own fears. The first time this happens you think: ‘That’s it! I’ve cleared the pain; I am no longer strapped to suffering!’ Till the next time. Oh be advised dear friends, your soul knows exactly how much you can take at any moment! You will be pushed just beyond your limit, again and again, until you can feel the utter truth in saying “I Love You” to yourself. That means truly loving your ego, your shadow, and, of course, your beautiful Twin for showing you how much you failed to love yourself all these years. Therein lies salvation.

The Twin Flame experience is a journey of love, bringing you back yourself. Welcome home, dear friend. We’ve been expecting you.

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