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For all Waiting Twins
We have an exciting breakthrough to share! If you are aware of the gorgeous immensity of your Twin Flame bond while your Beloved sleeps, and it is tormenting you, take heart. All you have to do is focus on yourself and the awesome goal of your own personal Ascension.
What do we mean by Ascension? Purging all of your 3d limitations until you love and accept everyone unconditionally. Once you Ascend, you will live at the 5d level where your union already resides.* You will be united with your Beloved.
Your single concern right now is to embody unconditional love. How exactly? Love everyone as your Beloved, most especially yourself.
Your heart will guide you through this process naturally. It is far from easy – it may be the hardest thing you ever do, but the union you seek already waits at the end of your own rainbow, and it is emphatically and undeniably real.
Only a love this powerful could push you to be an Ascension leader. That is what you are beautiful friend.
Suzanne & Spencer
- Your union already exists in the expansive, unlimited state of your soul. This is the feeling of etheric merging that you may experience while lying down. This multidimensional state exists far beyond the limiting experience of linear time and the left brain. It is where spiritual oneness already is, where separation was just a temporary experiment, and where you are bathed in all-accepting LOVE. Remember most of all that this is a process of uniting yourself back into oneness.
The Twin Flame path can feel confusing, never-ending, and tumultuous to the point of absurdity. In essence, it is an initiation that gives you back yourself by removing all need, insecurity, and desperation. It does so by hurling you into a world of need, insecurity, and desperation – so that you heal these limitations forever. So that you become solid and strong in your own unconditional love.
How do you get back to unconditional love – the love that is your true nature? By being thrust into the opposite. You see your conditioning in sharp relief, your need for external validation, your lack of worthiness and distraction from true joy – and it is all delivered on a silver platter by your Twin Flame.
The dark night of the soul that ensues is ridiculous. There are so many dark nights that you lose count. All of your pain is brought to the surface. You cannot escape it, bury it, deny or avoid it any longer. The longing – the LOVE makes it impossible to do so. You are driven to heal EVERYTHING by the one who is EVERYTHING. What a genius, albeit excruciating plan.
What saves you is LOVE. The very love that merges with your Beloved. The love that stirs from your depths with infinite magnetism.
Love saves you. Love in the ruins of your old life. Love in the face of what is most scary and raw. The Love of your very self.
Love emerges and changes everything you knew before. You will never be the same again. You can never go back, for you are discovering who you really are and why you are here, with sublime remembrance.
You are a leader of Love, dear friend, here to help our waking world. So Godspeed, brave soul, until you love yourself as much as you love your Twin. Unconditionally.
Until you emerge from the ruins, brush off the dust, and begin to truly flourish. And bring so much unconditional love to this earth.
From the Archives:
I love you. So completely. I love you beyond human reason – beyond anything I’ve ever known before. I love you with my full body and all of my being. Infinitely, right now and forever.
I love you more with every breath, so much that I am stunned with ecstasy. So much that I am filled with earth-shattering bliss, then made crazy, and dizzy, and bold.
I keep wanting more – wanting YOU more, with such exquisite longing. You are so achingly beautiful. My Love. My tormentor and saving grace.
Oh my Love, how do you do it? Your love radiates from within me – it burns inside and lingers on my lips. It sets me on fire with life! How is any of this possible? But nothing has ever felt more real, and I am yours for eternity. I always have been.
Even when it gets impossible. Even when our love challenges everything and turns it upside down. Even when I am left utterly blindsided, I HAVE to be with you because my soul knows its own destiny – no matter these little human lives. No matter those who conditionally love.
Do you remember, my Beloved? We don’t come from here. We are from the heavens and the stars, and we are striving to become one soul in this realm.
Somehow, from some pilgrim place inside, I know we will be together, despite everything and everyone’s doubts. I will find my way back to you, and I will be brave with love – our love that makes me suffer and triumph, day by heart-stopping day.
I was born to love you – to leap towards you, risk everything, and trust. It is only me who stands in the way of reunion, just as we intended – so that I might heal every hurt that binds. So that I might face everything that keeps me from loving myself. And when I forgive you, I finally forgive me; I stop judging and remember my True Self.
You are my yellow brick road back to God. And I am LOVE, just as we already are.
Suzanne and I continually receive the same question from fellow Twins, asked in a multitude of ways. The question invariably boils down to ‘How can I reunite with my Twin?’
Naturally, we all have many and varied opinions in respect to such a question, but I would like to refer to my direct experience as guidance. And from that guidance, I can give you a quick and disarmingly simple answer – ‘By following your heart.’
In order to be with my Twin, I followed my heart and ignored my ego as much as I could. My heart guided me to grow spiritually.
Being spiritual means wildly different things to different people, so I will try to express what it means to me.
My personal awakening began out of a deep desire to expand my consciousness. For me, that meant sweeping away the veil of illusion. It meant breaking down that most convincing and apparently self-evident convention that each of us exists as a separate form – that we are locked down as fragments of matter in a meaningless, and quite possibly hostile sea of time and space.
Getting spiritual essentially meant developing a palpable sense of connection to something ineffable – to a sense of wonder that informs an inner knowing. And this knowing reminded me that my human experience, so apparently rooted in limitation and suffering, was but a fleeting manifestation, a self-constructed version of reality. I realized I had forgotten who I really was.
On a more practical level, I wanted to grow in awareness so that I would no longer feel limited and fearful. But to be honest, I didn’t much like what I discovered as the way to liberate myself. Sure, I had fun rediscovering that matter, time and space are illusory constructs of experience in the mind, but I did not want to hear that in order to cease being a prisoner to this illusion, I must first surrender to it.
I found it impossibly hard, as most of us do, to accept the unacceptable – to consciously allow the world and my experience to simply be as it is, warts and all. “But isn’t there so much that needs fixing and making good?” I would insist. And while meditating on acceptance, I was bombarded by the thought that there is too much suffering in this world to just accept things as they are.
But in time, I realized that any sort of opposing or resisting merely serves to energize that which you resist.
The only way to truly make good a situation that causes you suffering is to first allow it to be as it is. And by not resisting it anymore, the situation no longer has the power to make you suffer so much. When you are not suffering, you are more aware of potential actions which may improve the situation. You can work things out with less negative emotion driving your thinking.
Applying this expanded consciousness to any situation allows you to look at it from a significantly higher perspective. Soon you stop reacting to irritations in your life. Traffic jams became far less of a problem, rude people can be forgiven more easily, and stress is no longer so, er, stressful.
We can then apply this accepting attitude to the big stuff too. It works in the same way. Our Twin won’t talk to us – consciously allow them to be what they are now! You will find an infinite reserve of forgiveness you didn’t know you had, and in so-doing grow immeasurably.
We know just how hard it can be, but whatever your Twin Flame situation is, allow it to be as it is. Allow the light of your expanded awareness to shine upon it in order to heal it. Accept your Twin Flame experience as it arises, in all its technicolor tumult that is pushing you to grow – that is asking you to expand your consciousness. And remember the infinite Love from whence you came, before you fell into the trap of believing that the material world of separate forms is all there is.
For all of you bravely walking the Twin Flame path, know that you are getting closer to yourself with every step. Know that your efforts are not in vain and that your soul is rejoicing in your growth. Unconditional love is your shining goal. It is what your Twin is testing you to embrace. Most of all, you are being pushed to unconditionally love yourself. That is the grace found in each dark night.
So keep going, courageous friend, and rescue yourself back to LOVE. Rescue yourself so completely that you flourish! But how? It starts with simple joys.
Find the fun in each moment, and let it lead to the harmony you seek. Find the playfulness that was lost as a serious adult, and return yourself to lightness and fun. There, you will powerfully thrive! And help so many by lighting the way back to joy.
We Love You!
Spencer & Suzanne
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I will not squander this love or delay it! I will grow adamantly, ardently towards it. No matter what. I will choose this jaw-dropping, heart-stopping LOVE! This unconditional love that fills my entire being with bliss.
I will not settle for less. I will not deny what is being felt or justify why I don’t need it. I will not put off the inevitable, but choose this LOVE above all else. And I choose it now! I will not wait.
Because I was born to know this love – this ultimate passion that grows with every breath. I was meant to be this love – no matter what humans and their human world deny. I will have it and hold it, and keep it for the rest of my life, into infinity. It is written in the stars.
I will persevere and not waver. And I will know that this was well worth the conventional price. Because this love is EVERYTHING, and I will not defy my destiny! But seize it and live it every day. And in that courageous living I will positively transform and find eternity amidst this human world. With my Beloved. My only one. The other half of my soul.
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Through sharing our sublime and brutal process on the blog, we have had the privilege of connecting with so many beautiful souls around the world who are also going through a Twin Flame relationship. The parallels in our shared experiences have been profoundly moving and inspiring. We are so grateful that you are here with us.
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Spencer and Suzanne
One of the most important Twin Flame lessons is that exhibiting unconditional love for your Beloved does not mean dishonoring yourself. In fact, unconditional love requires honoring yourself always. When you insist upon this, you clear your limitations from love. You end excruciating patterns with your other half.
It starts with you. If your life is not honoring you at this very moment, then you alone must fix it instead of waiting until you’re with your Twin. If you are being compromised in any way in your relationship, you are to stand up for yourself and make changes. Because human rules still apply, even with the other half of your soul. Most of all, if your Twin is disrespecting you even for a moment, you are to set clear boundaries and walk away if necessary, no excuses.
But aren’t boundaries a form of separation? They are the circle around your own wholeness. This wholeness is required to unite with your other half. Because two wounded halves don’t make a whole. And until you respect yourself in your thoughts, words, deeds, your treatment from others, and the life you are creating, you will not be able to have a successful union.
Wholeness is the shining goal that your Twin Flame separation has been guiding you towards. And it’s all about your relationship with yourself. Because external relationships mirror your internal relationship back to you. When you establish healthy boundaries with anyone, you learn to establish boundaries with yourself. You solidify your internal self-respect, and this is reflected in your experiences.
You see, you only tolerate from others what you tolerate from yourself. And until you love yourself unconditionally, you can’t love anyone else this way too. You put conditions on love and doubt your worthiness of it.
This is such a crucial part of the Twin Flame paradigm, and it is the basis of all spirituality. Everything starts and ends with you, and your Twin Flame relationship is the ultimate reflection. It brings out how you’re not honoring yourself and makes it obvious for you to see. It pushes you to end your own internal suffering, thereby ending its reflection in your life.
This is played out in your Twin Flame challenges, which means that they may compromise you completely. As may your Twin! Until you finally say “Enough” and ask for more for yourself.
Learning to ask for more is a growth process that most Twins experience. Anything that you’ve been denying yourself will make itself clear in your Twin’s eyes. All the parts of you that you have not loved will come out for you to see. Your goal is to embrace yourself with so much forgiveness and love that you cherish every part of yourself from now on. Unconditionally. And you treat yourself like sacred royalty. Because that is who you are, courageous friend.
You are a brave leader who has come here to bring unconditional love to our earth. You are here to help at this pivotal time for humanity and make a dramatic impact. Your Twin Flame process is guiding you there, towards the most powerful reunion with your Twin. And your very soul is being put back together, one life-changing step at a time.
Your Twin Flame challenges push you through things you wouldn’t have tolerated before. They do this so that you finally surrender to unconditional love. That is what frees you from your struggle and gets you to your Twin.
The incredible, romantic love that you feel guides you. It pulls you ever-forward through the process so that you keep going and don’t give up. And your Twin Flame situation is so challenging because that is what gets you to surrender to unconditional love.
Your other half pushes you to love them unconditionally, even under dire human circumstances. In fact, things have to get so bad with your Twin, to the point where you destroy all prior conditions you’ve put on your relationship. Because you can’t put your Twin into an old box of conditional love. They will never fit there.
You must embrace the unconditional with so much courage that you are lost. That is how you find yourself. That is how you become ready to have an entirely different kind of relationship – the only one that will work with your Twin. One that has no limitations and is elevated with infinite bliss.
To the ego, this process is extremely scary. It doesn’t help that your Twin plays their role perfectly. They do whatever it takes until you lose your judgments and choose all-forgiving, all-accepting love.
Your Twin presents you with red flags and deal breakers until you start to feel intense judgment towards them. In fact, everything your Twin does wrong gets almost ludicrous and completely unacceptable. After much agony and emotional unrest, you reach your breaking point. You finally realize the only thing that will rescue you is forgiveness and love, and you accept your Twin at last. In so doing, you finally accept yourself.
On the other side, you feel total, unconditional love for all. This is your Twin Flame goal. Because as a Twin, you are on a path of acceptance. You are here to accept everyone and everything and trust the plan of your reunion. When you do, things fall into place perfectly. When you have faith in your Twin Flame process, your universe positively blooms! We know because we are experiencing this first hand.
At the end, you will say, “Thank you, my beautiful, perfect Twin! You helped me to shed the limitations that kept me down all my life.” You will be ready to create with love instead of fear. And you will thrive like you’ve never known before.
You are shining and empowered, and flourishing in ultimate love. And you can make the life of your dreams with your achingly gorgeous Beloved.