My Love

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I will never let go of you. Ever. Even if my humanness struggles. Even if I can’t stand the intensity of our love. I can never deny our connection, because it is forever.

If I tell you that I can’t do this relationship, I don’t mean it. If I decide to run, I already know that I can never truly run away from you. Because you are my other half. You are me, and I am you. And if I run, I am only running away from myself.

So be patient with me. Carry our love, and let it lead you to be stronger. Let it show you how to become whole in yourself. I cannot do this for you. But our love can.

Even when we are apart, I am with you. Do you see, My Love? We planned to be apart so that we could grow. It is only growth that lies between us. And we are being guided perfectly by our soul.

Even when it looks like I don’t love you, I am simply pushing you to become empowered. I love you so much that I agreed to be your greatest challenge. So that you would assert yourself. So that you would become so strong that you don’t need me to rescue you. That is how much I love you.

So grow swiftly, my Love! And rescue yourself from everything that puts you down. Shed every last bit of human conditioning. Free yourself, and go for your dreams! Enact your passionate purpose on this earth. Do what brings you joy. Treat yourself with so much honor and kindness. Love yourself completely. Just as I do in my heart. I will see you on the other side of growth.

This is what will bring us together. And rest assured, we will make it. Because we are already together in the higher realms.

I am in your heart always. I am in your very being, and my breath is your breath. Your steps are my steps. We are the same, and I love you eternally, beyond the primeval stars.

Suzanne & Spencer

Deathbed Reckoning

If you are lucky enough to have found your other half on earth, then deep down you know with complete certainty that this is the only partner for you. You know that the magnitude of your love must be honored, no matter what that means in human terms. And you also know that if you don’t honor this love, you will regret it immensely. You will endure the most painful reckoning on your deathbed.

Because your soul cries out to be with your other half. Nothing can take this longing away. Not even the tremendous obstacles you face in order to be together. And it turns out that these obstacles are designed to help you unite.

Your Twin Flame challenges are designed to help you love yourself unconditionally. This makes you whole and able to permanently unite with your Twin. This is what every difficulty between you is challenging you to accomplish. And this is what your incredible longing is guiding you towards. You are being asked to feel the same life-changing, unconditional love that you feel for your Twin, for yourself.

Your Twin Flame challenges are breaking down the ways you have not loved yourself. They are obliterating your old methods of coping, your human conditioning, and your ego. Once you are truly free from these forms of control, you will remember the immaculate perfection you’ve always been. You will finally, fully embrace self-love.

And you will become utterly empowered. This is what true, divine power is – not chasing goals to make your ego feel better, not looking outside of yourself – even to your Twin! But awesome, full-body LOVE that guides you fearlessly towards JOY. This brings a whole new kind of certainty and confidence to your life. You become so strong with love, from the inside out, that you flourish, unbridled. You fulfill your life’s purpose out loud!

The infinite love that you feel for your Twin is calling you to do this. It is calling you to love yourself so that you can shine. This means that you will have to face the ways you aren’t loving yourself head on. These things cannot hide any more. Not even in your beautiful relationship.

Such growth cannot be avoided. It will keep calling you with longing and separation – with the ecstasy of joining and the agony of arguments, until you face what begs to heal within. Your Twin Flame relationship will push you to stop living for others and start living for yourself. It will constantly urge you to honor yourself with unconditional love.

You don’t want to end up on your deathbed having missed this most golden of all opportunities. You don’t want to go back to your old ways, no matter how comforting they have been. Because you came here to do this, and in so doing, help humanity.

It is time to go for what you really, deep-down want – the love that all people dream of: the infinite bliss that you share with your other half. And the full realization that it comes from within you. It shines from the inside out.

Conditioning runs Deep

Many of us are aware that we’ve been conditioned as human beings. But until we go though life situations that truly challenge us to shed this conditioning, it will continue to run our lives behind the scenes.

Your Twin Flame relationship will deeply challenge your conditioning and beg you to free yourself from it. It will overturn the ways you have settled in your life through your own beliefs. At last, you will finally see how conditioned you’ve been. Your relationship will get you to finally choose your own freedom.

The process is messy and painful, but it is extremely effective. Imagine that you are going along in your life, making the best choices you can, settling down into a comfort zone, complete with its safer challenges. When suddenly, you fall so deeply in love that you can barely function. You become overtaken by a power you’d long forgotten in the human world – total unconditional love.

Suddenly, you see all the ways you have been settling for conditional love – most of all towards yourself – and thinking that this was ok. Now, nothing but the unconditional will do.

This is the beginning of true freedom. And it can take your life becoming a soap opera to truly get there. This is because conditioning is so ingrained in us that we have a hard time seeing it. If we can’t even recognize it, then how do we begin to liberate ourselves? We can even get the concept of conditional love in our minds but may still be operating with programming that traps us.

For example, on the surface you might completely agree that every human deserves to be free. You might think that you insist upon this is your own life and that you are doing a pretty good job not letting others tell you what to do. But take a look at the subtle programs that motivate you on a daily basis. Are you making decisions in your life that make you look good to others? Are you sacrificing some of your freedoms in order to do so? And do you feel that if you don’t look good to others you will be considered less of a good person? Perhaps you might even feel a need to prove your worth with every choice you make.

Your Twin Flame relationship will bring all of this behavior into the light and get you to finally give up these beliefs. It may drag you kicking and screaming, but the ultimate outcome is your freedom – something you may never have experienced before in your life. This is the greatest gift of the Twin Flame relationship. It frees you from conditioning so deep that you’d even forgotten it was there. It gets you to finally unconditionally love yourself. And that is everything.

The Purpose of Twin Flame Couples

When a Twin Flame couple finds each other on earth and triumphs through the incredible challenges that stand between them, they help humanity to ascend. They help to lift our planet with powerful, unconditional love. This is the Twin Flame sacred mission. It’s why we chose to incarnate at this time.

If you are in a Twin Flame couple, then know that your reunion is making all the difference. Nothing is more important than helping humanity and our beautiful earth at this crucial hour. Many things will try to thwart your reunion, so be aware and remember the purpose. It is far more thrilling than any romantic fairy tale.

Most of the obstacles in your path will be completely related to the ego. They will stem from societal conditioning and materialistic concerns. But at the same time, you are also growing towards each other, and this can take time and distance. You are each becoming whole within yourselves before becoming whole as a couple. This requires acclimation, step by step, towards your larger goal.

At the end of the day, if you are still trying to get together with your Twin, then you have made it, and you are almost there. You understand what you have and are in place to ignite our planet with love. Stay strong, and do what it takes to unite. Nothing is more important, and you were born for this.