Many of us are aware that we’ve been conditioned as human beings. But until we go though life situations that truly challenge us to shed this conditioning, it will continue to run our lives behind the scenes.
Your Twin Flame relationship will deeply challenge your conditioning and beg you to free yourself from it. It will overturn the ways you have settled in your life through your own beliefs. At last, you will finally see how conditioned you’ve been. Your relationship will get you to finally choose your own freedom.
The process is messy and painful, but it is extremely effective. Imagine that you are going along in your life, making the best choices you can, settling down into a comfort zone, complete with its safer challenges. When suddenly, you fall so deeply in love that you can barely function. You become overtaken by a power you’d long forgotten in the human world – total unconditional love.
Suddenly, you see all the ways you have been settling for conditional love – most of all towards yourself – and thinking that this was ok. Now, nothing but the unconditional will do.
This is the beginning of true freedom. And it can take your life becoming a soap opera to truly get there. This is because conditioning is so ingrained in us that we have a hard time seeing it. If we can’t even recognize it, then how do we begin to liberate ourselves? We can even get the concept of conditional love in our minds but may still be operating with programming that traps us.
For example, on the surface you might completely agree that every human deserves to be free. You might think that you insist upon this is your own life and that you are doing a pretty good job not letting others tell you what to do. But take a look at the subtle programs that motivate you on a daily basis. Are you making decisions in your life that make you look good to others? Are you sacrificing some of your freedoms in order to do so? And do you feel that if you don’t look good to others you will be considered less of a good person? Perhaps you might even feel a need to prove your worth with every choice you make.
Your Twin Flame relationship will bring all of this behavior into the light and get you to finally give up these beliefs. It may drag you kicking and screaming, but the ultimate outcome is your freedom – something you may never have experienced before in your life. This is the greatest gift of the Twin Flame relationship. It frees you from conditioning so deep that you’d even forgotten it was there. It gets you to finally unconditionally love yourself. And that is everything.